a/n. this list is not exhaustive and merely tentative. some of the kinks mention edge play i.e. harder practices of femdom/bdsm, some more gentle forms. also includes a few positions.
➝ jimin
butt plugs
water sex
cfnm (clothed female, naked man)
blindfolds
spanking
group sex
orgasm control
roleplay
praise kink
hogtie
striptease
lap dance
begging
possessiveness
tattoos
spitroasting
public sex
dry humping
cuckolding
pentagram harness
filming
frottage
anal beads
rimming
dacryphilia
➝ taehyung
puppy play
collaring
paddling
virtual reality
vibrators
riding
stuffed toys
handcuffs
foot worship
pinching
the amazon
taking pictures
CEI (=cum play)
pinning
age play
gentle femdom
bathing
leashes
madam kink
biting
ass worship
licking
play parties
being the little spoon
light bondage
cock milking
➝ jin
choking
sensation play
feederism
gags
prostate play
corsetry
electro sex
anal gaping
double-ended dildos
gimps
riding crops
two column ties
very vocal sex
name-calling
roleplay
fucking machines
clothes pins
haircutting
pygmalionism (statues)
orgies
ice
marking
anal training
pain slut
➝ yoongi
kitten play
rough oral
whipping
governess fantasy
dp
humiliation/degradation
face-sitting
fingering
sissification
cum play
slave training
cbt (cock and ball torture)
dick stepping
grunting
pussy worship
breath play
maids and nurses
music
lingerie
findom (financial domination)
cursing
held down
predator/prey
chores
bathroom control
mild suffocation
goddess worship
spit kink
➝ hoseok
bondage
fisting
autofellatio
cock rings
slapping
medical play
watersports
spreader bars
rough sex
caning
knife play
shrimp ties
head harness
cum eating
anal hooks
bulldog harness
penis pumping
uniforms
pony play
speculums
latex
pegging
enemas
ball stretching
foot jobs
temperature play
➝ rm
phone sex
mistress/slave
tickling
orders
intercrural sex
roleplay
armbinders
dirty talk
shibari
kinbaku
cock whipping
rubber
nipple clamps
light torture
watching porn together
discipline
orgasm denial
total power exchange
voyeurism
PVC (the material, like latex)
smoking kink
glory hole
sex in a library
heels
masturbation
flogging
pubephilia
lingerie
➝ jk
pet play
thigh riding
slapping
edge play
sensory deprivation
oils and lotions
sounding
hip harness
heavy pain
tit jobs
body suits
leg fetish
wax play
wartenberg wheel
kneeling
cg/l
mummification
scratching
outdoor sex
ball busting
noona kink
chastity
nipple torture
chest to leg tie
human furniture
masterlist | related: bts as submissive boyfriends profile + mtl tag
Which members you think would be into gfd and which ones would like a dominatrix?
Short disclaimer first: With ‘dominatrix’ I refer to pro-dommes who run an actual playroom, what you likely mean is a private life domme with more hardcore leanings (latex, whips, degradation and such). It’s no problem, I answer for both cuz the more the merrier 😄
Sorting them for the latter (the lifestyle domme) I’d say: The hyungs are candidates, Jimin somewhat sporadically, JK as well. Vice versa: For Gentle Femdom, definitely sign up the maknae line — sweet Tae is made for it — and occasionally RM.
Now who’d book a pro-domme… to me, Jin is the type, as is Yoongi. Jimin is not to be underestimated either. Another surprise would be Namjoon, though it’s not a stereotype that the people who carry the most responsibility are the ones who show up in a dungeon. Least likely to be a dominatrix client would be JK and Hobi.
see also: MTL into gfd (w/ more detailed description) | mtl mlist
th. | preppy circular skirts and vintage beach dresses with stripes, all in simplistic cuts. knit skirts, but not rugged and heavy. pencil skirts, godet cuts are also possible. grace kelly style, of course, with the respective classic handbag. both skirts and dresses can sport understated peplums at the hip. light colors and fabrics look refreshing and smart on him.
sj. | giant luxurious drapings, revealing waterfall cleavages (front AND back), pastel ball gown dresses. bodycons. jin could flat-out rock a wedding dress and everyone would love it, too. cuffed, flouncy, and choir boy sleeves. it needs maximum extravagant decor everywhere, and pearls. large floral designs and golden prints. mermaid and ruffled skirts. pile on the taffeta.
sg. | mini skirts with prints and many details. grunge styles, loose checkered dresses. square cleavages or high collars. always with ripped fishnets underneath. tailored school uniforms of all kind — there’s a reason why min yoonji stole the show. knife pleated skirts. silver and matte fabrics. raglan sleeves. yoongi would also make a flapper dress look really sexy.
hs. | rough leather and laced/zipped up pieces, straight, geometric, black. always a bit futuristic and high fashion. effortless. dresses are at knee length and have jagged hemlines. neon colors and strapless styles. accordion skirts can be fairly long but need a clean V-neck shirt to top it off. a tunic or drop waist is nice as long as the colors are saturated and striking.
jm. | fur trim and plenty of lace, very flowy material for both dresses and skirts. sequins work best. velvety bomber jackets on top. sun and halter dresses. queen anne cleavage. or, on the other hand, jeans dungarees (!) cut into a dress. lots of waist emphasis. even a hanbok for women, as we know, looks just excellent. jimin rocks folklore. add tulip and trumpet skirts.
rm. | big chunky crochet dresses from thick wool, sleeveless (yum), huge patterns. perhaps a super short kilt so he can show off his godly toned legs. wrap dresses with extra long sleeves, but tight and stretchy around the biceps. leisure maxi dresses galore, without too much waist emphasis. ponchos & sarongs. even a floor-length dirndl in cream colors.
jk. | an elongated, casual linen skirt that’s tight around the waist and thighs. skater girl wear. a jumper, empire, or an a line dress looks fancy. also: a shirt dress with a belt marks the hip well. layered skirts work. maybe a bit of silk and satin, too. button-ups everywhere; we know how hot that ends up as because jk’s physique regularly explodes button borders.
↳ a/n: Hope you enjoy ♡ Sorted intuitively; other house placements are no less interesting and possible.
↳ warnings: BDSM, domme!reader, collars, impact play, praise kink, gentle femdom, edge play, bondage, voyeurism, chastity, pegging, cbt/torture, toys, amateur porn, aftercare
⟶ jimin | s.
Slytherin’s charisma reaches its very peak in this honorable subby representative. It starts with a salient mindset and ends with the respective gear. Jimin loves emerald green collars embroidered with silver snake details. And he has the prowess to back it up, because who would Jimin be if he couldn’t be the most determined submissive — now this is an oxymoron — our time and space reality has ever seen. Now, to accuse him of manipulation given his little begs, the constant smooches, and hugs for you is a bit of a hyperbole. He’s astute but not cutthroat to coax you into a certain type of affection he wants. If anything, he politely asks and runs his hand through his hair at most. But he certainly knows how hugs and smooches come across and what rewards they may bring, which is a) being praised as a good boy and b) if he’s lucky, getting his beloved forehead kisses and nuzzles because he’s a sucker for that skinship. Cunning aside. On the other hand, like every Slytherin, perfectionist Jimin wants to experience BDSM to its fullest capability and succeed in you and him mastering it together. That means: gags, paddles, dildos, fisting, handcuffs, slave training, and latex: all on the list, preferably at once because he loves to be the greatest in your eyes, and please you well through whichever tools you prefer on him.
⟶ taehyung | h.
As expected and characteristic of Hufflepuff, Taehyung has a surprising endurance and dedication in the sheets. And very, very beautiful moans. Is that house-typical? You bet it is. Next to Ravenclaw, Hufflepuffs are the overlooked aesthetes. Dominance and submission is like a piece of art to Taehyung, he treats it like every other of his interests in that regard which is fascinating. So, what else can you do than create the museum in which this art takes place. A room with a cushioned sofa and soft lighting, some nice food but not too heavy snacks. A very gentle femdom setup where you can practice care of him and take in his consummate beauty, every inch, where you can trace and tickle him with your favorite feather or pinch him a little. Whenever that set time for play is, Taehyung won’t be flaky and forget it. He’s punctual, always, and prepared. Hufflepuff is reliable. And fair, your relationship won’t be as heavy on the power imbalance as it would be in other houses. Give and take, equal measure, it’s subtle. Each person has their turn, patiently for an hour or more because he loves to breathe in your scent and hear you talk so genuinely. As the members say: He’s pure. Aftercare with Tae has to be the kindest, softest, and warm-hearted thing that exists. Cuddles, kisses, falling asleep in each other’s arms. This is the perfect Hufflepuff romance, a little laid-back, but also loyal and loving. Art.
⟶ jin | g.
A peek into this bedroom can be either hilarious or downright shocking. Doesn’t mean playful Jin likes to keep the door shut to spare others from what goes down. He’s proud of it! You are the one to close that door full knowing that some Hufflepuffs out there would like to munch on cake in peace, some Ravenclaws like to read their quantum theory books, and the Slytherins prefer to be left to their own devices without choking noises and vibrator buzzes messing with their own slippery snakin’ business. Jin would want them to see, to know, and to have you support flaunting your lifestyle a bit more. He’s honest with you there, as is a lion’s virtue. Gryffindor likes to project this value on others with good reason, they are fun and worthwhile to watch, they have something legitimate to show off. Plus the femdom and male sub underdogs need a bit more recognition. But you think a step further and thus suggest to satisfy this need by setting up your camera at the end of the bed and let it run come what may. Most porn stars are Gryffs, who are we kidding, you need plenty of nerve to do that. And Jin really does outperform himself with his whines and “more, harder, more” cries once he knows he’s being filmed. Win-win, you can rewatch all of it later, and even sell that good stuff adequately anonymized so the world will know that some courageous guys just love breath play and getting their balls wrecked.
⟶ yoongi | s.
Surprise! His drive and lust for sinister shit has to be reined in by you, otherwise he gets too extreme. If he’s not in a dungeon strapped to cold furniture with no chance of getting away, with you towering over him, what’s the purpose? He’d be bored and boner-less forever. Instead of unsuccessfully jerking himself to sleep, in his mind there is nothing better than getting tortured until his chest turns numb, his back is rendered bruised, all while aftercare promises a sure way to descend into the dreamland. Yoongi doesn’t do BDSM for fun and curiosity. That’s for the other houses. He does it because of power exchange. This is what you’ll show him indeed. Ruthless, but without the too scary stuff. Example. Slytherin loves water... Yes. He only feels like getting started when you hold his head down into an overbrimming basin and count to whatever his current rap-without-breathing record is. Yoongi seriously needs to slow his serpent ambition down in that regard. It’s better to just fuck and choke him out in a bathtub first. And do the smiley-kissy-loving aftercare for his tender heart’s secret desire. It’s what he deserves. Step by step. Adapting, cautious. Working your way up like Slytherin likes it. What it teaches you (and not just him), however, is that Yoongi readily puts his life in your hands. Slytherin’s “trust a few, but then, trust hard”. Is something to behold. That’s Min Suga for you. It’s something to treasure. Always.
⟶ hoseok | g.
What is the best type of chivalry? Submitting to your lady. Hobi has long understood that. Daring Gryffindor will not shy away from whips and some fiery wax play there. Sure, it can get loud, it has to get loud in fact, a lion always roars. So you have to be careful things won’t go wrong with that level of risk affection, impulse, and boiling passion, why so serious? But Hoseok seems to have an innate sense of knowing when going to far is a good idea and when he shouldn’t play the hero who can take it all and swallow it up on the other hand. He particularly likes going rather overboard during spankings or puppy play, getting really into it, making it memorable, just being the most exciting at being submissive in his little Hope World with you and him in it. If you want to go the extra mile with him, Hoseok is sure to be thrilled by a classic intense, screaming anal play. There’s one thing he lives for and that is the thrill and backward-rolling eyes when you hit that prostate hard with your strap-on but hold his hips exactly where they are supposed to be. Which is very close to you. So he has to pant and wince himself through the sensation so he can say how brave and strong of a honey boy he was afterwards, which is to your pleasure even if he recalls it more over the top than it was. But you gotta give him that, Gryffindor loves justice, justice for the subs.
⟶ namjoon | r.
We could just say oh, that’s all about being sapiosexual right, and close the case, we get how Namjoon thinks and likes it hot, nothing more to say. But as we know the eagles, it’s more complex than that. Since Ravenclaw favors the air, you can already guess what’s coming. Mister Joon of Ilsan, in his perennial existential wisdom and quest for knowing the world, has carefully read himself into the craft of bondage and of course, who would have thought, will approach you with something trickier to solve and conduct. Ravenclaw subs love to test their domme before they observe and surrender. It’s a very expressive and whimsical suspension he’s imagining there. Something that takes tremendous effort, learning, discussion, and training. You have to develop a strategy and logic for that first. Knot here, loop there, hook on the left, rope to the right, and so on. Namjoon is very intrigued and turned on by how you orchestrate this, and knows that if he won’t get severe rope burn, you did pass the test. Unlike with the Gryffindor members, that can become a very silent and concentrated session that might not seem so erotic to the outsider at all. But this is not something callous to both of you. Lengthy bondage practice can be zen and stimulating at once. You’ll see when his pre-cum drips down from a few feet high, hands and touch-free. Now talk about something original and intelligent won’t be sexy in BDSM.
⟶ jk | s.
His number one goal appears to be something truly aspiring. Not to impress you as it would be considered stereotypical, but rather belongs to the house of lions. No, he’d consider that a very desirable side effect from the main destination. What he first and foremost desires is to gain immense stamina. Jungkook’s clever: he understands it will unlock everything else except his chastity cage. The snake house thrives on power, preservation, no price is too high. Power is something assigned to you, though. He’s the submissive. There certainly has been a struggle for the dominant position, Slytherin is entirely hierarchical and leadership-oriented after all. But Jungkook realizes that his masochism puts him squarely in the opposite end. What’s left to work on then is preserving, relentlessly so; you have to tug him out of the stuffy gym not to forget that implementation matters more than preparation. Once that reminder reaches him, his stubbornness is going to make the whole undertaking a success in bed. Come to think of it, submission is performance, so he does it well. Jungkook, even if he’d keep in the background, would also like to meet other people who are into kink. Slytherin fraternity much; it would give him a sense of knowing where he stands, what he can do better, what resources are needed, what makes a good relationship in general — because that, ultimately, is his true goal.
