Thank you! Your response helped a lot.
I guess a part of me really just wants them to be canon and is holding out hope but I also know that even if they aren’t, fanon is a wonderful place. I think I’m also gonna take your advice and curare my experience. I think I’m just gonna avoid tags and maybe stick to following blogs I like. It’s what I did when I was in another fandom and things got wild lol. Sometimes you’re in your tag and someone has tagged a mean post that just doesn’t belong there and it gets tiring.
Also thank you for the recap!! I’m also a long story girly - literally fills me with joy the longer they are lol.
I'm so happy to know it helped!
I'm a very obsessive fandom girly - once I identify with a couple I just jump into reading fic and basically never stop until I either start writing fic myself (I still read fic, just less of it) or I move onto another obsession.
I've never been too bothered by my ships going canon (some of them have, some of them haven't) or by fandom drama, and looking back on it now, after years in fandom, I think part of that is because I read so much fanfic where my favourite ship is getting their happily ever after time after time and I can focus on that.













