Can I just put the whole episode of the body as the saddest scene in Buffy? Because it is. There are too many moments in this episode that qualify for me. Anya’s speech for one. I’ve said it in a previous post but that speech for me is the most universal representation of grief. Death makes you a kid again, worrying about the dead not having fruit punch again or brushing their hair. Another part of this episode is when Buffy goes to tell Dawn. I literally breakdown. They don’t let us hear Buffy say the words, but you can hear Dawns reaction, “No it’s not true. No you’re a liar! She’s fine!” And she falls to the floor. Having to go tell Dawn at school that their mother is dead is heartbreaking. But the moment I chose, is when Buffy walks into the house and finds Joyce. She walks in, sees the flowers, is teasing her mom about getting them. “What ya doin?” You can see the moment reflected in Buffys face when she realizes what’s going on. And Buffy says “Mom? Mom? Mommy?” I bawl. A beautifully acted and heartbreaking scene. And so real.