My brother is supposed to get leave from the military next month but he was recently offered a career opportunity that doesn’t come around very often. He’s debating not taking it though, because he really wants to come home.
I miss him, and I think he’s suffering mentally from the extended stay away from family. Us three siblings grew up with our entire family all in the same 30 mile radius. All but one aunt/uncle lived in the very same county. We get together every Thanksgiving/Christmas/Easter/Fourth of July, we have bbqs on Memorial Day by the pool, game nights in the winter, bonfire nights in the fall, and we used to vacation to a beach every summer (not anymore, we’re all too poor now). It’s a huge change for him to suddenly live across the entire country. He’s about 2,000 miles away, and I think he vastly underestimated how hard this was going to be when he enlisted.