#burden

[dexterrhymeswithexpert]

i cant talk to anyone

that would make me a burden to them

[theprophecyofroddymcdirrin]

Unpopular opinion: the I would abort my disabled child videos make disabled people want to die and wish they were never born. Abortion is always okay even if they are disabled or just for any reason but posting that reason just feels like you wish disabled people were never born because they're too much of a burden for their parents. I need more videos telling people like me that I'm NOT a burden and that i deserve to be here regardless of what I can and can't do, and I try to not even be much of a hassle for my parents. Y'all clearly haven't watched or read out of my mind and it shows it was a girl with cerebral palsy who was really smart regardless of her disability and her parents didn't abuse her or treat her like a burden! She had a photographic memory and a best friend too

[mbr3coaching]

What if the thing wearing you out is not your workload, but your mind?

Most people believe they are physically exhausted when the truth is they are mentally depleted. We blame our bodies when our minds have been carrying burdens they were never meant to hold.

Think about it. We are living through an obesity epidemic where many people are moving less than ever before. If physical activity were the primary cause of exhaustion, we would expect the opposite. The real problem is that our minds never stop running. Stress, unresolved conflict, anxiety, trauma, disappointment, expectations, resentment, and fear create a constant stream of catabolic thoughts that drain our energy every waking hour.

Your body can recover from physical work. Your mind struggles to recover when it never gets a chance to rest.

Be honest with yourself. Is there a conversation you are avoiding? A decision you refuse to make? Someone you need to forgive, including yourself? Every unresolved issue creates interference between your potential and your performance.

The answer is not always to work harder. Sometimes the greatest act of self care is to deal with what has been weighing on your mind. Have the conversation. Make the decision. Set the boundary. If you cannot change it, let it go.

When you remove the mental weight, your energy begins to return. Clear your mind and your body will often follow. Protect your mental energy as fiercely as your physical health because the greatest exhaustion most people experience today is not in their muscles. It is in their thoughts.

If this message spoke to you or something within it resonated, I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.

– Coach Mike

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#burden #physical #clear #mind #strenght

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Cameron Gibson

[disappointment-of-the-fam]

The burden of being an only child.

The burden of being an only child is a burden no one talks about. The lonely nights listening to your parents scream at each other because your headphones aren’t loud enough.

The days walking on egg shells to be the “perfect poster child” because god forbid you make a mistake. The endless days of being the middle man between your parents because if not you then who? The days of elementary school when classmates tell you are so lucky to have no siblings but going home to an empty house. The days of middle school not sleeping between battling the wars in your head and in home. The days of high school when you invite friends over and have to warn them of the turmoil in the hallways. The guilt of leaving for college and the guilt of not wanting to return.

The holidays where you put on a fake smile and talk to extended family like nothings wrong. The years begging for your parents to get a divorce and being told it’s “normal for parents to fight like this”.

The role of being your mother’s best friend when you are and should be her kid instead. The role of punching bag for your father and when you finally fight back you are the one who has to apologize because if not you then who? The uneasiness when your mother has another glass of wine. The uneasiness when your father closes the door too loud when his footsteps are heavier.

The hated for yourself for not being better. The hatred for yourself for not being enough to mend the relationship between your parents. The hatred you have when you act like your father because you never want to be that man The inner turmoil you have when you wish for your parents to get a divorce but the nights you spent crying because of the idea of your parents divorcing kills you.

The burden of an only child is a heavy one and a burden i must carry alone.

ahem. sorry but i needed to rant in a place no one knows me

[lollyblogs]

When I’m crying from stress and my thoughts of suicide but I have no one to talk to about it because I don’t wanna make anyone uncomfortable 🙂

[thebroken--soul]

Maybe I should 💀 for I can stop being a burden to my mom, to everyone 🤡✌🏻

[irishfederalreconnaissance]

Champlains of Canada (Veterans of Foreign Wars)

Ernest: Blackjack Pershing, Sgt., Army, Cook. Post-War, Detective Comics, smuggling of "Batman" into German Pennsylvania; National Socialist territory, out of Atlantic City casino carpets.

Raymond: Chester Nimitz, Staff Theater, United Marine Corps, Aircraft Mechanic. Post-War, Integration of Germans and Africans, Paperclip; placement of "MiG Aerospace Superiority Fighter", through "Home Depot", per refusal of war between Russia and America; friends, World War 2.

Michael: Ronald Reagan, Junior Technician, Raytheon US Navy. Post-War, Home Box Office, Israeli Defense Forces, production of television and prize fights and sports, through Jordanian Intelligence; Sirhan Sirhan, against Kennedy Regime, Massachusetts, through "Nintendo Games"; the retarded, "id Software", common literature of payment to Down's Syndrome.

David: George W. Bush, Lt. Field Officer, UMass-Amherst HUMINT. Post-War, print of Rocksteady Games, FOX Studios, and Marvel Comics, on Disney investment. Strip of entire banks savings of Great Britain, per investment through America; MKULTRA, "Ken Kesey", out of MKULTRA UMass-Amherst; service impossible to defect to civilian, CIA; NSA MKULTRA, targeting of MI-6; better's societies, White's Gentleman's.