i love that one person a few [time] ago who was being like "yeah i'll respect someone's name choice but not pronouns" (something about names being a choice but pronouns being biological or something), and i called out their stupidity because, hey, say you are introducing your new co worker to someone. you'd get weird looks if you point to some man with a full beard "yeah this john, you can go to HER with any questions you have. SHE is in your department", especially if everyone else refers to him with he/him pronouns.
because you WOULD get weird looks.
this dumbass comes back as me with something about saying everyone with a beard is a man. are we fucking serious. brother i actively stay in the closet and when asked about shaving or why i have a beard, i advocate for "because i don't want to" "because i can do whatever the hell i want" "why would i". you don't fucking know me!!
and my point still stands!!!!! people get weird looks when introducing me to others or when they use she/her pronouns on me!! i get weird looks when i introduce myself with a feminine name!! my mom will "correct" people when they use he/him on me and people look visibly confused and often uncomfortable!!
to just completely ignore my point in honor of "oh wowww so you just hate women?? you just hate women that don't fit into your perfect mold?? you think bearded ladies aren't men??? wowww the side that's supposed to be about acceptance??" shut. the fuck. up. go talk to real fucking people. you sound deranged. stop being willfully ignorant to people's points.