~Breaking Bonds~
Is there someone in your life that you can’t seem to break away from? Do they keep intruding in your sanctuary or causing undue anxiety? Maybe they were once a friend, a co-worker, a neighbor, a lover but the bond you have now is unhealthy and damaging. It’s time to let it go, to severe what ties you together.
1. Find two candles of any color and carve your name into one and the other person’s name into the other or signify which candle is whose with symbols or other words.
2. Take a piece of twine, string, thread etc and tie a candle on each end. I recommend using something you aren’t attached to and is easy to break/cut. Also be aware of how close to your wick the string is because it can catch on fire, use caution always!
3. Light both candles and recite the following spell 3 times. While growing confident in what you want as you repeat it each time visualize the anxiety, pain, and negativity this person has caused you dissipating. It may also help to visualize chains breaking.
*this can be modified to encompass different relationships, more people, deities etc* *bonus: Create a sigil of protection and fold it into a heart by your candle to create an amulet to protect you from that person’s attempt to reestablish the bond*
4. Let the candles burn out (safely) or as close to nothing as you can get it. Once it is out you can dispose of the debris in the garbage, bury it, flush it (within reason) or whatever you normally do with spell materials.
5. Enjoy your freedom, and expect some growing “pains” as you and the other person adjust to this breaking.