#calicourse

[dumbassesdottungl]

What do you think of tucutes/MOGAI who make race and age "genders"?

The thought of it makes my eye twitch in anger and frustration.

- Mod Cali (BLM is not a gender)

[dumbassesdottungl]

so whats yalls opinion on neopronouns? (like, as in people who use he/she/they and ALSO neopronouns) cuz i use he/him but im like "hey these two neopronoun sets are also cool, ill use them but ill never make someone ONLY use them" sort of thing?

I will always default to auxillary pronouns like he/she/they. I feel sketchy using neopronouns, it sends anxiety throughout my body and makes me shiver and cringe a little. But that's just me.

- Mod Cali (that's called physical discomfort)

[dumbassesdottungl]

this blog makes me smile when my dysphoria is bad, so thanks 🙏🏼- a trans guy who wishes all the mods a good day/night

You go, bro!

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

Bro i just saw one of my terms got shat on here 2 years ago lmfao but im here to say like... i wish i saw it sooner. I was always iffy on mogai until i joined a discord server thats incredibly toxic. They encouraged me to do things and gave me a really bad point of view and honestly i'm really sorry that I did any of that. Im not gonna say which gender but I just was browsing and came upon it. I wasnt even old enough to be on Tumblr at that time- Just got with the wrong people. So thnx, really.

It's good you were able to recognize and leave a toxic environment. I'm proud of you.

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

Tbh I think the term "queerplatonic" is the least weird of the bunch. It just means someone who you feel no romantic or sexual attraction towards, just platonic, yet want to stay with them for the rest of your life. A platonic life-partner. And it's not just "close/best friends" cause lemme tell you no one I know (not even me) would want to live for the rest of my life and raise a kid with a "close/best friend".

"Let's get married and have kids, but in a friend way."

Yeah, still gonna take me some getting used to.

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

just met a tucute irl for the first time. they came out as a "genderfluid pansexual polyam person who uses they/them and he/him pronouns". they never bind, they make awful trxp jokes all the time, and they once called themself a "fxggoty gaybie". this is someone who i've know for over 4 years now, and it's insane how much they've changed as a person since they came out. they DO seem a lot happier, but some of the things they say and do are just really terrible. anyways, translation please?

Internalized homophobia and transphobia.

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

hello, "troll anon" here. I am really not a troll, but I suppose you can continue to think so. sorry for the delay in responding, I've been busy, and I wanted to clear up this misunderstanding. my discourse blog is currently inactive, but it's oceancoursiing :)

Bio checks out :/

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

hi, i’ve came out socially as ‘genderfluid’ in 2016 and ever since that i’ve been feeling trapped, i changed my label to nonbinary last year and it felt a bit better, i present my self feminine, i barely present masculine but when i do it feels good? anyways, ur account is giving me courage to come out as cis, i understand now that u can still present as the opposite gender without having to transition/having a label. lol i know my ask is all over the place and english isn’t my 1 language srry:(

Yeah, anon! Fuck gender roles! You do you!

- Mod Cali