Tucutes Translated

were a bunch of assholes with nothing better to do with our time

[dumbassesdottungl]

this is the OP of the Straight Nonbinary Casey Hartley headcanon but they can’t handle any criticism whatsoever like the mature fully-grown responsible person they are, so. here:

1.) how hard is it to say

“masculine nonbinary” it’s so much less explaining AND the etymology of the words matches their meanings AND don’t push Western-centric mythos in your face on top of that

2.) you can’t be nonbinary AND binary gender at once. that’s a literal oxymoron

3.) tucute = anyone who believes you DON’T need dysphoria to be trans. so that includes nondysphorics AND their supporters. then again, leave it to someone like you to give no shits about the meaning and importance of words.

4.) you can’t have a discourse blog if you’re going to slap a DNI on everyone who contradicts you in any way. that’s not how discourse works.

—Mod Shiro

[dumbassesdottungl]

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

…Need I say it

Really

Do I need to say it

Say it with me:

G

~Mod Lion

[dumbassesdottungl]

N

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

hey, I did say that my blog is under construction :)

Least I know you're not a troll

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

What do you think of tucutes/MOGAI who make race and age "genders"?

The thought of it makes my eye twitch in anger and frustration.

- Mod Cali (BLM is not a gender)

[dumbassesdottungl]

so whats yalls opinion on neopronouns? (like, as in people who use he/she/they and ALSO neopronouns) cuz i use he/him but im like "hey these two neopronoun sets are also cool, ill use them but ill never make someone ONLY use them" sort of thing?

I will always default to auxillary pronouns like he/she/they. I feel sketchy using neopronouns, it sends anxiety throughout my body and makes me shiver and cringe a little. But that's just me.

- Mod Cali (that's called physical discomfort)

[dumbassesdottungl]

this blog makes me smile when my dysphoria is bad, so thanks 🙏🏼- a trans guy who wishes all the mods a good day/night

You go, bro!

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

Bro i just saw one of my terms got shat on here 2 years ago lmfao but im here to say like... i wish i saw it sooner. I was always iffy on mogai until i joined a discord server thats incredibly toxic. They encouraged me to do things and gave me a really bad point of view and honestly i'm really sorry that I did any of that. Im not gonna say which gender but I just was browsing and came upon it. I wasnt even old enough to be on Tumblr at that time- Just got with the wrong people. So thnx, really.

It's good you were able to recognize and leave a toxic environment. I'm proud of you.

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

hello, "troll anon" here. I am really not a troll, but I suppose you can continue to think so. sorry for the delay in responding, I've been busy, and I wanted to clear up this misunderstanding. my discourse blog is currently inactive, but it's oceancoursiing :)

Bio checks out :/

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

wig

[dumbassesdottungl]

hello, "troll anon" here. I am really not a troll, but I suppose you can continue to think so. sorry for the delay in responding, I've been busy, and I wanted to clear up this misunderstanding. my discourse blog is currently inactive, but it's oceancoursiing :)

Bio checks out :/

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

“Call me a food themed name for short! Flower themed pronouns or neutral pronouns. I’m GNC who’s a bit feminine. I have dysphoria but now that’s a gender in itself. I don’t know if I experience romantic attraction because of my mental illness(es). Again, GNC. I find beautiful people beautiful. My gender is a star but it changes around. I get light, fantastical feelings when I meet people. I only develop sexual attraction to two or more genders after a strong bond is formed. I experience romantic attraction to my own gender. I form relationships that are much closer than regular friendships. I am a Ravenclaw and Harry Potter fan. My gender is like food. (This will be updated, I like collecting microlabels). I believe in past lives I was/feel spiritually connected to Eevee, a rose, Rainbow Dash, macaroons, honey, and angel, a fox, a tiger, Princess Bubblegum, a rose quartz (or the Steven Universe character), a garnet (or the SU character), a creepypasta character, and Sailoer Jupiter. Triggers: cis men, people who think you need dysphoria to be trans, latex, crunching noises, kinphobes.” Transweight??? Wdk other mods weigh in. Losing weight or something?

Op, we suggest you just explore your gender even if it’s unpleasant. Consult a gender therapist. Also it’s not uncommon to find pretty people, well, pretty. You don’t need to label it. We don’t really have a problem with the kins, hell one of our alters is foxkin as well. Although we don’t really know if you can kin with food?? You may want to examine why cis men trigger you, maybe see a therapist about that. You can’t just avoid them all your life. Keeping yourself in an echo chamber isn’t good, try to slowly get used to transmeds. Again, someone explain “transweight”

🔅Mod Apollo🔅

[dumbassesdottungl]

Transweight just strikes me as "I want to gain/lose weight"

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

Tbh I think the term "queerplatonic" is the least weird of the bunch. It just means someone who you feel no romantic or sexual attraction towards, just platonic, yet want to stay with them for the rest of your life. A platonic life-partner. And it's not just "close/best friends" cause lemme tell you no one I know (not even me) would want to live for the rest of my life and raise a kid with a "close/best friend".

"Let's get married and have kids, but in a friend way."

Yeah, still gonna take me some getting used to.

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

It's like friend-partner nonbinary.

- Mod Cali (I figured it out!)

[dumbassesdottungl]

At first I thought… you’re just trans, right? Not as awful a take as usual. So you fall under “queer” while remaining straight.

But no. No.

“A paranormal woman who is attracted solely to women who is attracted solely to men/man who is attracted solely to men attracted solely to women.”

~Mod Lion

[dumbassesdottungl]

You are bi

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

Tbh I've always struggled to understand why the term 'Feminism' is thrown around to try to claim equal rights in the modern day, since the whole idea of it being equal rights stems back to when women had far less rights then men (Such as the inability to vote and things of the like). Feminism hasn't ever really focused on men's rights or issues half as much as women's... -K

Agreed. Fun fact, men don’t have the automatic right to vote, and women do. But tell me again how the patriarchy exists?

-Moderator Alexiel

[kate-everet-88]

Then that’s an issue we feminists are trying to resolve. I identity as a feminist, and in the past, yes, females were less privileged and had less rights. Now we’ve gotten to a point where we’re (almost) at the same level, we are trying on focusing on the males issues.

Prime example of feminism is the new Gillet Advert tackling toxic masculinity.

i’m planning within the year to try and form a mental health group for young males who feel it is “not manly to cry”

TW: Rape and Suicide

Feminist charities who used to only focus on female rape cases within my local area are encouraging men to raise their voice.

A couple of years ago, a boy in my school had committed suicide. Suicide rates are higher with males than females. A local mental health organizations are bringing that to light and are trying to get men to be true about their feelings to people.

Feminism used to be just about females. But now, it’s everyone, regardless of gender. And we need to stand up and fight for that

If anyone disagrees, please reply! I love friendly debates, and hearing other’s opinions, as long as we are both respectful of each other. I didn’t mean for this to end up as a rant, but I like this blog and today’s been shit. As soon as I saw the chance to vent, I took it. Please don’t think i was trying to by horrible, i wasn’t. I will happy discuss if my mental health isn’t a bitch just now.

[dumbassesdottungl]

I personally support this! That said, I’m not particularly a fan of most “wokenomics,” although I do think it’s quite important to take down toxic masculinity.

✨ Mod Ganymede ✨

[dumbassesdottungl]

The fact that you think the Gillette ad wasn’t a cash grab and had any merit or point says a lot. 

Masculinity isn’t toxic, and saying that going after guys for not getting involved every time a woman is… walked up to, apparently… is bad, as opposed to mentioning the gender prison gap, circumcision still being legal, and the draft laws is making feminism equal is just wrong. 

As for what you did with the mental health awareness, I’m glad for that, but it’s still wrapping up men’s biggest problems as being emotional as opposed to the very real institutional issues men face. 

-Moderator Alexiel

[dumbassesdottungl]

TLDR: equal rights means equal responsibility

- Mod Cali (I'm still here!)

[dumbassesdottungl]

Tbh I think the term "queerplatonic" is the least weird of the bunch. It just means someone who you feel no romantic or sexual attraction towards, just platonic, yet want to stay with them for the rest of your life. A platonic life-partner. And it's not just "close/best friends" cause lemme tell you no one I know (not even me) would want to live for the rest of my life and raise a kid with a "close/best friend".

"Let's get married and have kids, but in a friend way."

Yeah, still gonna take me some getting used to.

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

Hi I’m just a little confused about what transcute and trabsmed mean I looked them up but I’m still confused could you help me out :)

Transmed means you believe dysphoria is a prerequisite for being trans, I have no idea what transcute means. Is it like tucute, where you believe you don't need dysphoria to be trans?

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

hi, i’ve came out socially as ‘genderfluid’ in 2016 and ever since that i’ve been feeling trapped, i changed my label to nonbinary last year and it felt a bit better, i present my self feminine, i barely present masculine but when i do it feels good? anyways, ur account is giving me courage to come out as cis, i understand now that u can still present as the opposite gender without having to transition/having a label. lol i know my ask is all over the place and english isn’t my 1 language srry:(

Yeah, anon! Fuck gender roles! You do you!

- Mod Cali

[dumbassesdottungl]

just met a tucute irl for the first time. they came out as a "genderfluid pansexual polyam person who uses they/them and he/him pronouns". they never bind, they make awful trxp jokes all the time, and they once called themself a "fxggoty gaybie". this is someone who i've know for over 4 years now, and it's insane how much they've changed as a person since they came out. they DO seem a lot happier, but some of the things they say and do are just really terrible. anyways, translation please?

Internalized homophobia and transphobia.

- Mod Cali