#calmbirth

[niceblissfulthings]

Positive birth affirmation cards are a great hypnobirthing tool to have in your toolkit/hospital bag! #hypnobirthing #calmbirth #birthaffirmationcards #20weekspregnant #hospitalbagessentials #hospitalbagchecklist #babytime #calm #becalm https://www.instagram.com/p/CkQWGlDPRHm/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[millionaireslearning]

No matter how fast a wheel spins, in the center it always stays stable. In the same way to spin the wheel of life correctly you need to be stable and calm. 👥Tag those who needs to see this Follow @millionaireslearning for best entrepreneurial content Turn on the 🔔 for future posts ____________________ Follow👇 🔷@millionaireslearning 🔷@millionaireslearning 🔷@millionaireslearning ____________________ #millionaireslearning #mindfulnessforkids #calmday #calmbirth #calmac #leechangsub #successfromhome #successbefore30 #leegon #calmapp #calm_collected #mindhunter #mindfulart #successcircleng #bruceleroy #mindandbody #brucenauman #calme #leef #brucekulick #leecooper #bruceleequotes #leederville #brucetimm #mindatter #mindfulmeditation (at Miami, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/CZWqH7VJjL7/?utm_medium=tumblr

[teddytarnieandme]

37 weeks! 😲💙

On a more positive note than my earlier post, our Calmbirth classes are AMAZING! I'm seriosuly so happy that we’re doing them. It's helped both of us (mainly T because I'm not worried about labour) become a lot more relaxed about the entire process. It's really quite detailed and goes into gow your baby is already learning from you while in the womb and how important the breath is not only in labour, but during your entire pregnancy. I really wosh we had have done them a bit earlier thab we did. We've got 3 weeks until June Bug is due, which means 3 weeks of lots of breathing practice, mental preparation, visualization and creating a calm environment for him to come into the world. It's inspired me a lot, so daily for the next 3 weeks (or until he arrives) I'm going to post a positive labour affirmation to help with my mindset. I already have a pretty good idea of the type of birth I want, but after these classes I believe now more than ever that it is 100% possible. I highly recommend anyone who is pregnant seek these classes out.

[hypnobirthingsydney-blog]

This is a picture of my second born Isla Rose Ford, now lovingly known as "Rosie". This is in honor of her 3rd Bday on Monday. I was lucky enough to find Hypnobirthing before my first baby Grace. And my first birth was calm and loving. With Rose we took it to another level. My second birth was fun, joyful, fast, super laid back and pain free. We were even able to have a water birth. I have never felt so connected to another being as I do to my 2 daughters. I was able to bond right away. Both girls commando crawled to the breast to feed. We have this bond that is truly life changing and unbreakable. Both girls are allergy free, sleep well and are super healthy. But I do want to mention that I practiced....I practiced my pretty little pregnant body off!!! I practiced HypnoBirthing breathing, listened to my hypnosis and affirmations daily for about 5 months each. It was ingrained in my head BOTH times. Nothing could change my mind set. I always say...in anything worth while, work, life, birth relationships; it takes hard work and planning. So I leave you with this...if you take a year to plan a wedding, months to find a job and a lifetime to find a life partner...don't you think you owe the miracle of life 12 hours to learn more? Please enquire about our programs. Learn about your body and how it works. Program your mind to stay relaxed through this truly amazing process. Silence your fears... Let us educate you! Lots of love and Happy New Year HypnoBirthing Sydney Www.hypnobirthingeasternsuburbs.com.au #hypnobirthingsydney #hypnobirthinginternational #hypnobirthingeasternsuburbs #calmbirth #relaxedbirth #pregnancy #joyfulbirth #hypnobaby #hypnobabies

[dearnewfathers]

[babypakchoi-blog]

The Little Birth of Calm

Before getting pregnant, I had this image in my head that giving birth is basically the worst thing to happen to anyone, ever. Honestly, the reason I wasn't keen on getting pregnant was that I couldn't face the idea of labour and delivery that I had built up in my head.

  Blame horror stories from acquaintances, masochistic googling (“childbirth how painful”) or media depictions of women screeching their heads off as a team of doctors grab their legs and shout at them to PUSH. Pain, pain, pain; horrible, horrible, horrible, is the message that all women get, years before they even start to considering a family. No wonder we’re all terrified.

I’ve heard stories about antenatal classes in private hospitals here in Hong Kong, in which the (male) anesthetist comes in and tells you how painful childbirth is--literally saying that the pain is equivalent to getting your leg ripped off. It’s not hard to believe that most mums-to-be will opt for the pain relief--or even an elective c-section--after a story like that.

Pain is subjective and every birth is different. How can you even compare a traumatic limb amputation and the labour process!? It’s like trying to compare running a five-hour marathon and suffering from a five-hour migraine. 

My original plan was to get a massive epidural at the very first twinge of a contraction and happily ride out the whole process dead from the waist down. However, I learned that the government system is anti-intervention, and if they think you’ll be able to make it to the pushing stage without drugs, they’ll hold off on the epidural (sure, the anesthetist is on his way! They’ll tell you... for three hours...) and let you deliver naturally.

The last thing I wanted was to get caught out with an unprepared-for drug-free delivery, and to then have to white-knuckle the whole thing. I’m not saying I don’t want an epidural, but I do want to be prepared to go without if I have to. Above all, I don’t want to be traumatized by birth, and as I had been panicky and nervous about it since day one, I decided to enroll in a Calmbirth course.

This program is a series of classes totaling 12 hours, designed and developed by Australian midwife, Peter Jackson. It’s nothing too freaky--classes that educate you on anatomy and the birthing process; a bit of cognitive behavioural therapy (stories and videos of good births) to rewire your associations of childbirth with trauma/pain/misery; workshops to help you think about the labor you want; and breathing and relaxation techniques.

Of course, the proof of the pudding is in the eating, and having yet to actually give birth, I can’t yet say whether Calmbirth has helped to turn my experience into a positive one. What I can say is that my outlook has gone from one of terror to one of reasonable confidence and an “OK, I can do this” attitude. And for that alone I’m really glad I did it.

I can’t give you the breakdown of all the classes (you’d be reading for hours), but these are the basic takeaways:

Fear-Tension-Pain Response The basic premise of the Fear-Tension-Pain response is that if you anticipate an event fearfully, it’ll lead to tension, and that tension will in turn lead you to experience pain--a vicious cycle. The idea is to replace fear with knowledge about the birthing process, and replace tension with relaxation, thereby reducing pain. Common sense really, but it’s nice to have it spelled out.

Which brings me to… How the Uterus Works I found this tidbit extremely useful. To put it very basically, the uterus has three muscle layers. The first layer pushes the baby out, and it needs oxytocin (the feel-good hormone) to function. The second layer holds the baby in--if your body is telling you via an overdose of adrenaline that it’s not safe to give birth (you’re panicking, you feel unsafe, someone you don’t like has come into the delivery room), it’ll shut the whole process down. That’s when you get stuck, and that’s why it’s important to remain calm, to keep the oxytocin flowing and your adrenaline levels low.

Which is why you need the techniques of… Breathing, Relaxation, Visualization If you start hyperventilating or stressing out, you’ll set off a panic response in your body, which then diverts blood away from your uterus and towards your limbs in preparation for fight or flight. Because there’s a diminished blood supply to your uterus, it then starts cramping and working less effectively. But if you remember to take deep, slow, calm breaths, and use relaxation techniques and visualization tools (imagining the baby coming down, going to your happy place--whatever works) it’ll keep your panic responses to a minimum.

But you also have to… Prepare for the Unexpected Shit happens--especially during labour (and although I don’t mean that literally--that too). Everyone has an idea of what their ideal birth will be like but often it just doesn't happen that way. Calmbirth also teaches you to manage your expectations and make the best of a situation if things don’t go how you expected.

And this is the key really--so much of how you feel about your birth is how you choose to feel about it. Two people can have the same experience and one will think it was awful, and one will think it was great. I hope this doesn't sound hokey, but if you’re willing to accept that certain aspects of birth are beyond your control and that you can make the best of what you can control, you’ll have a better time of it.

Calmbirth doesn’t talk about birth in terms of “passing” or “failing” and it’s not staunchly anti-intervention. If you need an induction, an epidural, a c-section, that’s fine--but what can you do to make yourself feel good about your experience?

The Calmbirth course is run in Hong Kong by doula and pre- and post-natal massage therapist Kathy Kitzis. You can learn more about it at www.kathykitzis.com.

[beautifulmadhouse]

How do you create calm during the childbearing years. I use some frankincense & lavender in a nasal inhaler. Perfect for birthing at home, in a hospital setting, or in the operating room. I use them daily to help mellow out my busy Momma/Doula self. Aromatherapy has had some extremely positive effects on me! #aromatherapy #pregnancy #calmbirth #childbirth #doula #doulas #carriagehousebirth #lavender #sniffsticks

[hypnobirth-blog]

Natural childbirth, Natural Childbirth Classes, Natal Hypnotherapy, Calmbirth, Orgasmic birth

With the growth of medical industry over the last century, the very notion of natural childbirth is becoming obsolete with each passing year. Historically, women gave birth to their offspring in their homes, attended by a midwife, a local family physician and the members of the woman’s family. Gradually, clinical birth and birth in hospitals began to gain priority, with most of the women opting for it, considering it ‘safe’.

Contrary to popular belief, natural childbirth is as safe, practical and feasible as clinical birth. The only preparation you, as an expectant mother, need is a trained mind ready to accept natural childbirth.

The first step towards natural childbirth is your determination to make it a reality. To start with, you can attend some natural childbirth classes to get basic training, and to share knowledge and information with other pregnant women. These natural childbirth classes can instill confidence into you and prepare you mentally for the big task ahead.

  Natal hypnotherapy is another method that uses some form of hypnosis to help women manage labor. You can use some self-hypnosis techniques or, if you are interested in more detailed training, may follow a specific course. You can either attend  natal hypnotherapy  classes or listen to CDs in your own free time at home, which include information on hypnotherapy and antenatal education.

    Birth is a natural process, which should occur naturally, and without fear or anxiety. Calmbirth is another program that teaches you to deliver the child calmly and with confidence. Calmbirth trains pregnant mothers, their spouses, friends and family and provides them with necessary skills to make natural childbirth such a wonderful and risk-free experience.

Orgasmic birth is another novel concept that believes that birthing should not be the screaming and agonizing experience as is commonly believed and depicted. Orgasmic birth advocates that delivery of a child should occur in a caring, serene environment, making it a unique sensual and blissful experience. Orgasmic birth believes that birthing can be an ecstatic or orgasmic feeling for a woman.

  “That birth is a sexual experience is probably the best kept secret,” said Elizabeth Davis, a midwife and proponent of the concept of orgasmic birth.

Whatever training you get or the method you adopt, it is important that you should prepare yourself physically and mentally to meet the challenge of natural childbirth . Your determination and support of your spouse, family and friends is key to your sincere effort in making it a reality. At the end, you can bask in the bliss of motherhood that you can proudly claim as natural and not as medically assisted in neighborhood nursing home or hospital.