#calmdad

[szayelgranz]

ulquiorracifer replied to your post:hey, if you like my content, check out this brand...

btch u could have just @d me if you were gonna promo my church sideblog!!!

genuinely it’s like 50% you, 50% the masterful aes tag on that 1 old rp blog i never told u ab.

calmdad replied to your post:hey, if you like my content, check out this brand...

I’ll tag you in any yellow/gold churchy stuff I find

thx dad for my life. :*

[sasukerap]

calmdad said: joseph and caesar need to get married right this instant pls and thank u

YES I AGREE,,, theyre so good theyre such a good duo and caeser is ridiculous

[sasukerap]

calmdad said: WHOA HEY SAME I JUST FINISHED PART 2 AND I’M LOVING IT 

HEY SAME! IM LIKE SO CLOSE TO DONE PART 2!! like i only have 5 more episodes n im so happy id marry every joestar

[szayelgranz]

when your friends want to ruin your life.

[jolys]

12, 18, 22!

12. do you have a particular song that you feel deeply?

i in fact have an entire spotify playlist dedicated to the songs most important to me

among these: neptune by sleeping at last, follow me by muse, wait for it from hamilton, putting the dog to sleep by the antlers, revisited by the antlers (among many others)

18. favorite part of your personality?

probably the fact that when i’m feeling up i am through and through the most loving and caring person you’d ever meet

although that doesn’t happen that often

22. favorite quote?

i’m sure if i thought long and hard enough i could come up with a better one, though for a while my favorite quote was from this poem: “this is not to say you aren’t special. this is to say, thank god you aren’t special”

[mudwhelks]

what's peach i want in

its a cute lil like. casual social media app (its unfortunately only for ios rn)

to me it seems like a cross between twitter and snapchat where its meant for just little updates on what youre doing and how youre feeling 

it was made by the creator of vine and he describes it as “a space for friends”

it seems cute! i like the relaxed feel of it. heres a good cover on it

anyones welcome to add me my usernames the same as my url  b(・ڡ・)d

[asexualmew]

CLEARLY Mettaton backwards is Not A Ttem [Temmie Village plays menacingly in the distance]

Funny! Someone actually sent me a chat saying that and that’s what made me think that Attem might actually be his dead name.

[luninosity]

/post/133767867509/ and /post/133363244969/ are what I was concerned with. Maybe you forgot about your responses to these asks in particular, which is fine and happens occasionally, but that smacks to me as really inappropriate.

Have gone back and checked, and thanks for making clear which posts you meant!

Let’s see, the first one was super-flippant, hence the :-p face at the end–not intended as actual speculation, more like, no, I don’t know what happened, this is me being…not sarcastic but not serious, either; I’d had multiple people ask me what happened next, so my answer there is meant to be read in a joking way: “I don’t know, let’s say that sex happened if you want an answer, this is tumblr and full of fan culture, why not…” Maybe the tone doesn’t come across? If it doesn’t, I am sorry about that; but it’s still not actual speculation. (Speculation would imply that I’d been actively thinking about and considering possibilities; I wasn’t and haven’t.) I actually haven’t really ever thought about them again, other than reading people’s fic that used the story as inspiration. (Honestly, as a professor, I am vastly amused that anyone thinks I spend *that much* time thinking about students after I’m done with teaching/office hours/advising and finally home! *laughs* Nope, nope. I want to *not* think about students as much as possible!)

That second one literally just says that I assume they’re busy enjoying themselves, as an amusing possible explanation (of course there’re other possible explanations! he might’ve transferred, had a schedule change, was only there that time to meet his friend, who knows) for why I never saw Student again the rest of the semester. That’s only sexual if you want it to be; I mean, Awesome Husband and I enjoy bookstore trips, nice dinners, museums, travel to Europe… I admit I did use the word ‘assume,’ which might not’ve been the best choice, but I was answering an ask and not putting a ton of thought into it, and I want to believe they had a happy ending and are having fun together, so I suppose I am going to assume they did, in the absence of further information!  :-)

Does that help? I mean, I can take down the first one, because I can see how it can be read as more problematic, if the intended tone doesn’t come across. *shrug* I’m not emotionally invested in that random reply, so if it’s bothering someone, it can go. I don’t think the second one’s really a problem, other than that I probably should’ve been clearer in wording and said something like ‘if I were writing the fictional version the characters would be enjoying themselves,’ versus using ‘assume’; but as far as content, I don’t read that one as objectionable, I think?