My friend @wordartbyshalomisrael just sent me this backstage footage that aired yesterday on #my9 of me and the other @armada_dance @stylepointenyc dancers for @__adrian__escoto collection doing a fun backstage interview #nyfw2017 #newyorkfashionweek #flashbackfriday #goodfriends #showtime #goodmemories #cantwaitfornexttime #fashionshow #tvinterview #spotlightfridays #cameramoments #alleyesonus #backstage @beachyballerina1231 @jenroit (at Dixon Place)
If you don't want to get pissed at me, don't read this. This is just a warning, but you have got to stop pissing me off. I've been told to just accept it, and I have, but now you've driven me a little too far.
A previous post of you answering a question is just fucking pissed me off. The fact that the asker was saying that makeup is "shitty and stupd" just proves how fucked up society actually is. You (as well as the asker) are calling me fake for enjoying how I look with makeup on. You have no fucking right to say that I am any less real by wearing makeup. The world is NOT centered around your opinion. Truthfully, if someone dyed their hair orange, people would come up to them and say wether or not they like it. YOU CANNOT JUST SAY THAT YOU HATE HOW THEY LOOK. And then, when people like me say that they can't say fucked up shit like that to someone, they shut up, and say it behind their backs. And "allowed"? HONESTLY? People can do whatever the fuck they want. They don't exist just to please you. You don't get the right to yell at someone if their body ideals don't match up to yours. It's NOT like we have nothing to contribute in our lives except for our looks.
And you said a "friend" that you "agree with" says it's our choice, and "makes them happy". DAMN RIGHT IT'S OUR CHOICE. We get to choose what we look like, so fuck you for trying to say that what we like 'isn't right'.
"the only reason people wear makeup is because they want to be pretty like the girls in magazines"
WHAT THE FUCK? You are saying society is fucked up. YOU ARE ACKNOWLEDGING THAT SOCIETY IS FUCKED UP, AND YOU ARE CONTRIBUTING TO IT'S FUCKED UP-NESS.
I wear makeup because it makes me happy with how I look, and I couldn't care less about what "the girls in magazines" look like. I like how I look with it. You are calling me stupid, and calling yourself yourself more of a woman just because you choose to look more natural and bare-faced. What makes you a woman is NOT what you look like. (skinny OR fat) ((being fat is NOT a bad thing. EMBRACE THE FAT.)) It isn't even if you have been born with lady-parts or not. Being a woman is about what's in your head. It's how you think of yourself.
So do NOT say that your better than me for not wearing makeup. DO NOT SAY YOU'RE MORE OF A WOMAN, OR THAT YOU'RE MORE REAL.
You say you hate makeup, you are saying I'm faking it, and it's not how I actually look. You are saying that makeup is lying. So is wearing clothes, which you address. It IS a preference. But wearing clothes isn't lying, is it? Yeah, wearing clothes is lying as well, according to your standards. It apparently cannot be that I just like how I look with them.
No body is wearing clothes or makeup for everyone else. WE ARE DRESSING AND WEARING MAKEUP FOR OURSELVES. I don't give a shit if you think I look better with less makeup. IT'S NOT FOR YOU. You are not on my mind, I'm not trying to be beautiful for you. You need to stop thinking that the world revolves around you, and your body ideals. Just because I choose to look a certain way, IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU GET TO HARASS ME. You cannot be an asshole over people wearing makeup just because you think it's a falsehood. Not everyone who choses makeup is fake, and not everyone who doesn't is real. I respect that you don't wear makeup, so why isn't that respect mutual? Does that narrow-minded thinking of yours make me worth any less as a human being? No, so learn to shut the fuck up, because you DON'T get the right to say that anyone who wears makeup is worth any less.
*I'm sorry if this offends you, but I had to say it. I'm fucking tired of you blaming society, because you're not doing any better. So just learn to fuck off. I like you, but if you continue judging people so harshly just by their appearance, then I don't think we can be friends anymore. I'm sorry, it just needed to be said.
