americano with cinnamon -D 🪼🦋
what makes you a good person?
cards: 8 of pentacles, temperance, 10 of cups, page of swords
You may have came from a rougher home or a confusing upbringing, one that didn’t really give you the tools you needed to navigate the world and relationships. Despite this, you’ve put in the work every single day to try and become a well adjusted and healthy person who refuses to continue the cycle. This doesn’t just make you a good person, it makes you an amazing person, one with strength many will never know how to possess. You want your happy ending and you know in order to have that you need to work on yourself and find peace alone first. Know that you are doing an amazing job of this. No matter how small or big the steps you take, every single one has been noted and recognized, and you will receive rewards accordingly. Even though it may feel like you’re stumbling through relationships sometimes or like you’ve made mistakes, you refuse to let them make you bitter or stall your progress, you just see them as a bunch of little learning opportunities. Be proud of yourself for this, and give yourself credit, it’s more than most people are capable of doing.
extra - the high priestess: what makes you spicy is your ability to detach and walk away. There have been so many turning points, pivotal moments, and crossroads in your life it probably feels a little like a chronic journey at this point. You’re not wrong. You’ve faced more obstacles than a lot of people do, and you’ve always chosen the right choice. You’re not afraid to admit that you’ve grown up, that things have changed and therefore you need to make different choices now. You are a lifelong learner, constantly ready to reevaluate and admit areas where you could have done better. It makes you mature, and this maturity is scary for a lot of people. It makes you immune to being the bad guy. For that to happen, you would have to be unwilling to be good, but others not only see your willingness they see your effort. Because that’s the difference between you and the people who hurt you. They know they hurt you and believe they were powerless to change that, you know you’ve messed up and know only you have the power to change that. Power struggles, jealousy, manipulation, all fall short for you because you’ve already learned how to let your ego fall away and let your spirit lead. And to top it all off, you’ve learned it all alone, after painstaking trial and error. Know you have the respect of the universe for this, and that if others challenge you, it’s because they feel inadequate in the shadow of your energy.