Leandra: Well, I’m disabled so that’s obviously played a huge part into understanding my body and sexuality. When you can’t feel over half of your body and I wear leg braces and I catheterize out of a ileostomy in of my abdomen. These are all things that for a long time I felt super undesirable as a person. It’s kind of hilarious that I went through so many years of my life thinking I will never find anybody to love me, and yet now I am giving and receiving love with multiple people. It’s a wonderful thing. They are accepting of my body and willing to learn with me. It’s not just about my experience and my body; they’re learning stuff, too. They’re learning about their bodies and their bodies and that’s so cool and I love it. Yeah, the disability is pretty cool.












