It was a one-sided match. In fact, it was so in her favour that you might as well have never challenged her. You could never get a hit in against her spear, and if you try retreating she would end up chasing you down. Yes, maybe you could brag about parrying one or two of her attacks, but despite your brave face, your arms are sore from knocking away her powerful thrusts. The worst part wasn't that she didn't even try, or that she kicked your ass in front of a whole crowd, or that she even signed a L with her fingers at you while you laid defeated on the ground.
The worst part is that she took your seat in the tavern when you went for a toilet break while meeting with your friends and she refused to move over even one seat when there were plenty of empty seats around.