#cece.answers

[alovher]

hello !! Hope you're doing alright and everything. Ok so... do you ever get the feeling that you're running out of time when you're trying to manifest something, or that you're not doing it quick enough like you're on a timeline. I just keep hearing these horrible things on the news and I'm like "I gotta hurry up" and the person I love is getting sicker and sicker (hurry hurry) and I'm trying to do it all before next school year (HURRY) and I wanted it all before winter break and it's like time is slipping away and I'm getting scared. I tried the void state method and it feels impossible. I feel so stuck. I'm scared of war and my parents death and i wanna live in this perfect reality... but what if I take too long?

hello :)

though your circumstances are very real and they feel so big and scary to you, nothing you are describing means you are failing, slow, or running out of time. there’s genuinely no such thing. what you’re experiencing is fear talking and fear always creates the illusion of urgency. consciousness does not operate on deadlines or rely on linear time, time does not exist and there is only now. the future and the past only exist in the mind, there’s only right now and either you have it right now or you don’t, that’s for you to decide.

time is such a big deal in the community and sometimes it can be hard (for me) to get people to understand that time is not your enemy nor is it something you should care about as a concept. time is a byproduct of awareness moving, that’s it. the concept of time and clocks and calendars was created, it’s not an inherent rule or law of the universe. we do not live our lives on a specific timeline, we create the timeline in our minds by comparing our journeys to other people’s and by relying on the 3d to tell us what’s real and what’s not.

your brain just wants to keep you safe and you do not feel safe right now so of course the void or whatever else you’re doing feels impossible. you don’t need to outrun your circumstances with techniques and the pressure you’re putting on yourself is actually the thing making you feel stuck. manifestation is not a race against the clock and no technique will get you anywhere in this state because techniques don’t manifest, you do.

you are never running out of time, you have to learn this. the only thing thinking about time does is stress you out and look how far that’s gotten you. focusing on time means you’re focused on the 3d and if you had what you wanted in your 4d why would you be looking at the 3d? the only reason things take a long time to manifest is because you guys assume it does. if you’re persisting in the assumption that you’re not getting it when you want to get it… congrats, you just manifested not getting it when you wanted.

the state you’re in right now is “i am unsafe and time is chasing me.” if you keep trying to manifest from that state, everything will feel urgent and impossible. and i’m not saying any of this as if it’s easy because i know it’s not. when we have circumstances like yours that are very important to us or things that our lives and loved ones rely on, it can be so hard to change your assumptions about them. but you have to try because it’s the law of assumption and it’s always only going to be all about your assumptions. that’s not me saying you need to eradicate your fear overnight, i’m just saying stop letting fear dictate your assumptions about how much time you have. nothing real is being taken from you because you haven’t “done it in time.” consciousness is not cruel like that so don’t be cruel to yourself.

[alovher]

is manifesting/law of assumption a form of psychosis? i'm genuinely asking, because i saw someone say that they're manifesting to wake up in their 'desired reality', but how is that possible? i'm genuinely asking

lol, if it was a form of psychosis, that would mean a tremendous amount of people are very ill and making all this stuff up… seems unlikely.

summary: just because you see something happen in your reality, it doesn’t mean you have to identify with it. the less you identify with things you don’t want and the more you identify with things you do want, your reality becomes… you guessed it… your dream/desired/ideal reality (meaning you are living the life you want).

psychosis is a medical condition that involves losing touch with reality. manifesting, especially using the law of assumption, is about deliberately choosing what you identify with internally. you do this by knowing that your assumptions shape how reality reflects back to you. it’s not about hallucinating, seeing what’s not there, or denying what’s in front of you, it’s about understanding that consciousness is the root cause of everything you see.

when people say things like “desired reality,” it sounds extreme, but it just means they’re focusing their inner attention on the life they want rather than the one they feel stuck in. it’s not about waking up in a cartoon world, it’s about waking up as someone who already feels chosen, loved, rich, secure, etc., and letting the outer world reflect that. dramatic wording aside, it’s literally just identity work.

[alovher]

not to be negative but manifesting can be so frustrating at times... like I could be manifesting two things at the same time in the exact same way but only see one in the physical 3d so I know manifestation is real and I believe it but because I don't get the other thing idek what I'm doing "wrong" and it's so hope-crushing ykwim right and and it then just makes me doubt stuff I've lowkey been escaping and avoiding real life responsibilities for a month but today I just couldn’t due to circumstances but instead of giving up I’m trying my best to take this as a sign of movement and convincing myself how this must be the old identity trying to put up it’s last fight since my new identity is kicking it out (I read a tumblr post on this called extinction burst or smth) end of rant (sorry I really tried to not trauma dump so I kept it as vague as possible and thank you for being a safe space for so many people) maybe similar stuff happened with you if so what’d you do? did you change methods or go back to the basics or did you keep affirming? any advice is appreciated

i wrote a long ass response to this but it did not send so now i have to try to remember everything i said omg 😭

thank you for coming to me with this, i know it can be really frustrating. my first piece of advice is to dedicate some time to learning the genuine ins and outs of the law. when you are confident in your knowledge and understanding of the law, it is easier to apply and persist. secondly, make your own rules!!! stop worrying about what other people say or do. it is the law of ASSUMPTION bc it is based on YOUR assumptions.

i have been in your shoes (and sometimes i still am!) but the more i learn, the more i understand that the key to manifesting anything is consistency and discipline. if you can control your awareness and consistently immerse yourself into the new story, you will manifest it. i have a post on my blog somewhere where i briefly talk about commitment, i will attach the photo that inspired that post to this!

nothing is right or wrong necessarily, and you can do pretty much anything so long as you are consistent with it. don’t ever think you’re doing something wrong. imo the only wrong thing you can do is dwell in the negative. as long as you don't dwell on how you can't do this or how this isn't working or how nothing is changing or on the old story, then you'll get your desire.

so to sum it up - just take a deep breath, stop putting so much pressure on yourself, do what feels good to you, stop worrying about time and the 3d, and BE CONSISTENT!

[alovher]

https://www.tumblr.com/alovher/793243309898366976/so-i-tried-to-test-loa-by-manifesting-things-like?source=share how do wee accurately test our abilities

people often get caught up in wanting “proof” of manifestation and when i tell some of y’all not to focus on the 3d or look for proof, y’all get mad 😃 but that’s okay, i won’t hold a grudge about it because i’m gonna show you how to “test” the law and build your confidence so you don’t feel like you need external proof!

1. pick something neutral

choose something you don’t have strong emotional attachment to. it could be a certain phrase, symbol, or object like seeing a pink feather, hearing someone say “bananas,” or noticing a specific car color. the neutrality makes it easier because you’re not fighting resistance.

2. go within yourself and decide you have it

manifestation is NOT i affirm i have my desire → the universe starts working on my desire → i see my desire in the 3d.

manifestation IS i decide what i want → i experience it in the 4d → i persist knowing it is already mine because i experienced it already in my 4d → the 3d reflects my 4d because it is a shadow of the 4d

understand that every single version of reality already exists. you’re not creating anything because you are already experiencing what you want in another reality. you are just tuning into that version of you that already has it. so go inside yourself, imagine what it would be like having already experienced it. feel what you would feel if you had it.

3. relax and enjoy yourself

if you’re constantly checking the 3d, you’re saying “i don’t believe it yet, it’s not here yet.” why would you check the 3d for something you know you already have? treat it like ordering food at a restaurant. you place the order and you know it’s coming, you don’t keep calling the waiter to make sure they put your order in. relax and have fun because it’s already done!

4. understand the principle

the point of testing is to help you realize that consciousness is the only reality. once you prove this to yourself with neutral things, you start trusting it with the desires you do care deeply about.

sooo the most accurate way to “test” your manifestation ability is to deliberately choose, imagine, and assume something lighthearted, then watch as the world mirrors it back which shows you that the mechanism works the same no matter the scale of the desire. hope this helps!

[alovher]

I'm allowed to cry. I'm allowed to crash our. I'm allowed to get angry and curse everyone and everything out. but as long as I return to my desired state when I feel better, that's considered persisting?

if so, that's easy as fuck

it IS easy as fuck, y’all gotta stop complicating the law. you’re a human being! you’re going to experience sadness, joy, pain, anger, and everything else on the spectrum of human emotion. but be consistent and always return to the state of the wish fulfilled and dwell there CONSISTENTLY. consistency trumps perfection every damn time.

[alovher]

Hi, I want to move out of my parents house, have my own apartment and be able to do whatever I want. Be with my SP, and manifest a degree (I only have a year left of school).

I'm old enough to do whatever I want, but in an Asian household? nope. Well, at least it is what my brain is telling me. I have so many things I want to get all at once, but it feels illogical and impossible.

I want to break free from my mom, she's definitely not the nicest. Although I feel bad because she's not as strong and healthy before, she needs my help more than ever. I know I can manifest her a better health but with so many things I want to get, it feels out of reach.

Any advice?

hi, i appreciate you coming to me for advice on your situation. believe it or not, we’re in similar circumstances right now so if my response gives you nothing else, i hope it gives you the comfort of knowing that we’re never really alone on our journeys and we’re never really that different from another - when we scream out to the void… someone does hear.

i have so much i want to address in your message and so many concepts i want to dive into to help you but i will try to keep this as short as i possibly can 😭 as a person of color myself, i understand that frustration for sure and all of your feelings are valid.

but my main piece of advice here really is to drop the need for things to make sense. easier said than done, i know! but the more that you genuinely study the law of assumption (versus consuming nonsense content), you’ll realize logic literally has no place in this world.

but as humans, we are often concerned about what’s logical/realistic and we are always trying to rationalize things and figure out how things are going to happen. in my opinion, if you really struggle with this, you should work to retrain your way of thinking and embrace that true intelligence is understanding that you are never going to know everything. you’re never going to be able to understand or rationalize everything and you absolutely should use that to your advantage via manifestation.

an excerpt from a post i made in my discord server a while ago: “what we call logic is often just the body’s way of repeating what it already knows. it says: this hasn’t happened before, this doesn’t match what i see, this would require change and change feels unsafe. but that’s not you being logical, that’s just pattern recognition. it’s just the nervous system doing what it was trained to do which is keep you safe from the unfamiliar. but “safe” isn’t the same as “true,” and familiarity can be altered.”

i say aaall of this to say, who was it that told you what was logical and what wasn’t? ⏰ realism is overrated! just because you come from a strict home and your maternal relationship is not perfect and you have all of these things you want to do… it is just the 3d. the 3d is dead, it cannot hurt or help you, it literally just wants to reflect you. so no matter what you think you see in your 3d and even though it’s hard to change how we think, you must persist and know it can be done (we have neuroplasticity for a reason!)

everything that has ever existed in this world was once in someone’s imagination. everything in your imagination wants to be yours! it is meant to be yours! you don’t need to know how it’s going to manifest, why does it matter how it comes about as long as it does? why can’t miraculous things happen to you? why can’t it be that easy? it can it can it can

[alovher]

how do we change our mindset from persisting to get in the 3d to persisting to keep having it in the 4d

sometimes even if ppl say “i’m living in the end,” deep down they’re still watching the 3d to see if it worked. and that means they’re not fully shifted yet, they’re just visiting the 4d temporarily hoping it’ll trigger a change in the 3d.

persistence is literally just staying loyal to the ideal version of you. that’s it. stop thinking: “i need to keep affirming so it’ll come.” start thinking: “i’m affirming because this is who i am. i already have it and this is how i think now.”

you are not visiting the 4d to manifest something into the 3d. you are living in the 4d as your real home and the 3d eventually conforms to it.

reframe how you think about persistence. you’re not persisting to convince yourself. you’re persisting to stay in character! you’re keeping your focus locked on what’s true in your consciousness. you’re maintaining your identity.

it helps to normalize your desires. it is normal for you to have what you want. the more normal it feels to have your desire, the less you’ll feel the need to make it happen in the 3d. persisting becomes peaceful when you know you’re not chasing anything.

[alovher]

Hiii :)

Hope you have a great year ahead!! Sending good wishes to you for 2026 🩷

I just had a question on mindset. Like while striving towards my goals, how do I prevent burnout? Because even while affirming and keeping the constant thought of "It's already mine", I do get tired with the work that's necessary for my desired goal.

How do I fall in love with working towards my aim so much so that it fulfills me rather than feel like a chore?

i love that you asked this because we talked about this exact thing in my discord server maybe a week ago and i’ve been experiencing this burnout myself! i will try not to ramble too much about this topic 😭 i’ll address it in two parts of what i think the issue is based on what i’ve seen in the community.

part one: forcing yourself to do things that don’t resonate with you = burnout. most people have a “manifestation routine” or things they feel like they need to do or want to do to stay in the state of the wish fulfilled and that’s fine! and then there’s people that consume sooo much content and opinions from others and they feel like they have to have the exact same routine or methods or affirmations that another person has just because that person said it works for them. it’s the law of assumption… YOUR assumption, not someone else’s.

you’ll find yourself forcing yourself to set aside time to visualize for an hour everyday when you don’t even like visualizing because it’s hard for you. or you’ll make yourself affirm 10,000 times when you don’t even enjoy doing that. so imagine you have a desire and you assume that in order to get your desire you have to do these things you don’t really want to do… that’s mentally taxing. then you skip days and you’re inconsistent and that makes you feel guilty and lowers your self concept because you’re “not doing what you’re supposed to do” and that’s taxing you too. you feel like you have to DO something and if you’re not doing something then you’re not manifesting and aaaall of that burns a person out. so i think my advice is reevaluate the tasks you believe you have to do to reach your goals to determine if they really are necessary or if they are just ideas you think you have to do because something or someone told you to. because in actuality there’s nothing to physically do to manifest, all you have to do is assume.

part two: reframing discipline as devotion. in my opinion, i think the way to fall in love with working towards your aim is through devotion. i know discipline is such a buzzword this past year but i like the idea of devotion a lot better. you fall in love with your journey when you understand the real aim is to experience life to its fullest capacity. who are you? what do you like? what makes you happy? what’s actually important to you? these are the things to learn and to know about yourself and when you know these things, your identity is so clear to you in your mind’s eye that you stop negotiating with passing emotions. for example, if you know so strongly that you are someone who values academics and that you have a goal and it’s important to you that you reach a certain level of education, you’re going to study even when you don’t feel like it because you identify with your values and your goals and not your passing feeling of not wanting to.

true discipline is not forcing yourself to do things you hate or being rigid or mean to yourself. true discipline is devotion because it comes from a place of love. you express love for yourself through consistency, through honoring your emotions, through keeping the promises you make to yourself, through allowing yourself to be curious and try new things that fulfill you even if other people are not doing those things. don’t do things because you "should," never guilt yourself, and always forgive yourself. do things because you want to be true to yourself and if you are being true in the work you do to reach your goals, you will always feel fulfilled.

hope this helps, i accidentally rambled im sorry 🥲<3