What are the steps for giving somone a gender upgrade, rather how would forcing a man to become an it/its hottie be different to forced androginizeing it?
Differences from other types of not binary genders and presentations will often lie at the eye of the gender-holder 🤭 in a gender upgrade project, specifically, it's better to focus on your goals rather than technicalities of difference or relatedness to other transitions and presentations. Each nonbinary upgrade at its most basic level, is a mentality modification. Your sub can be androgynous or not, so a forced androgynization can come into play, but the real end goal is to have it think of itself as an it/its hottie, not an androgynous person in general. The steps are planned according to each goal.
What is required of you, in general: 1. a clear goal of what you want the end result to look like (for example: it/its pronouns, being a thing* instead of a man, androgynous** dark clothing and presentation). 2. consistency: you mustn't forget the transition program yourself if you don't want it to forget either; 3. a mix of positive and negative reinforcement; 4. a mix of you initiating gender-euphoric (or humiliating :p) interactions and choices, and encouraging it to initiate them as well. Don't forget to reward it for its own initiatives. 5. periodic check-ins to know if it's dressing up like you want it to dress (in case you want it to change that), using the right pronouns and titles for itself, etc.
I read your comment wrong at first and wrote out tips for the it/its pronoun transition lol. But let me know if you would like to read that. ^^
*Just an example. It/its users can be anything, from women, to birds, to bots etc...
**People usually understand fashion presentation as being restricted to a masculine-androgynous-feminine slider. However, a lot of nonbinary people challenge that, believing that a presentation can be xenine, agender, catgender, etc.