#chatbytes

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whatever you call this

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"get those abs off of him" is rightfully healing society but plsssss can we extend this to "get those abs off of her". more women built like kegs. more women with tummies ranging from soft and undefined with rolls to properly wide and large and where most of their body fat is stored, especially if they're supposed to be strong. don't even feel compelled to give them big tits to "compensate" for it. appreciate women with meat and body fat Now.

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i'd say ego renegade boy gets it. on several fronts, but centrally this idea in people's heads that when you transition, you're taking someone away rather than becoming your realest, happiest self. despite the fact there was hardly this fondness of whoever you were "living" as when they were talking about how weird they were, how bad they were at their role, if they ever bothered acknowledging them at all. paining for a stranger never living to begin with.

this is by no means unique to being transmasc, but if you are; this tends to manifest as disapproval that you're taking away a beautiful, perfect, cisgender daughter, a wife, a mother...a resource. their resource, as we're all taught is the "purpose" of one "supposed" to be woman. and its not cause of "androphobia/anti-masculinity" of any kind or whatever, cause their problem isn't masculinity at all. it's transition. it's this idea you're doing it to them. cause whether you lived the lie or reclaimed your life, they were only ever thinking about themselves in a matter that was about you - the REAL you - from the start.

tl;dr: go my daughter killers. 💙🩷🤍🩷💙

[catdotwav]

idk ig the thing bothering me abt this situation is that if this was just a simple case of a creator saying "this character actually isn't the identity a lot of people headcanon them as", i'm concerned why they'd feel the need to block more transfems just expressing disappointment at not getting more representation than the open and literal terfs and transphobes running w/their response to spout transphobia.

and regarding certain takes on this that really rubbed me the wrong way; gnc women don't mean less when theyre trans. they especially should get to break gender norms and not have their womanhood revoked for it. what is it about being a cis woman that makes butchness more meaningful, exactly?

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i love my date everything faves cause two of them are stalkers one of them has debilitating trust/attachment issues and the other is the personification of hatred. what normal things this says about me

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i'm still not the best at wording it succinctly but i think its most effective short and sweet; more mean messy complex black characters that get respected and supported by the narrative anyway. i don't just want heroic aspirational characters of color i want ones that get to lash out and be empathized with just like their overwhelmingly prominent white counterparts.

we should get to be celebrated agents of chaos too. we have more than enough justification

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if u are making femme!shawn michaels u have GOT to keep her hyperconfidently into girls. if she's not a lesbian whats the point

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macaroni and cheese is yuri. macaroni hails from a very big, very posh italian family as one of its younger daughters. youthful, earnestly demure, too curious for her own good, conflicted to assert herself amongst her many more successful and conforming siblings and the rigid standards of her family name, has a playful bouncy whimsy she's still trying to remember to repress but she just needs an encouraging environment to express it. and in comes cheese who, for the sake of narrative foil, is this american neon yellow melted cheese, loud lanky tacky city girlie you'd find drunkenly defending your honor in the club bathroom, awful but thoughtful taste in everything, knows her way around almost every carnival and casino game around and they hate her for it, and she'd be like omgggg macaroni you're literally so gorg your whimsy is a delight and not a detractor never forget that. and then macaroni kicks her little vintage shoes while she watches cheese kill it on a fiddle or some other out of pocket instrument she's not bad at tbh.