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“A child who has experienced trauma will sometimes show they feel connected to an attachment figure by releasing all their big emotions in their presence. What may appear as disconnection may actually be a sign of trust.” J. Milburn This really applies to most children, not just those that have experienced trauma. I’ve found a lot of foster and adoptive parents have been reaching out lately, discouraged, feeling disconnected, due to behaviour. As an adult adoptee, these conversations always resonate so deeply with me. This quote was inspired by those conversations. For a traumatized child, they may have much longer, more extreme, more physical emotional releases, that don’t seem to “improve” for a long time. It can be incredibly challenging for the child and parent, but often, it’s what they need to go through to process their trauma, and start to build trust and feel safe again. #responsiveparenting #jmilburn #peacefulparenting #gentleparenting #attachmentparenting #attachmenttheory #parenthood #childdevelopment #unconditionallove #healing #healingjourney #trauma #PTSD #childtrauma #ACES #buildingtrust #bigemotions #emotionalintelligence https://www.instagram.com/p/CPGz_aBHIr9/?utm_medium=tumblr

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How Trauma Affects Children's Development

Trauma is unfortunately a common experience for many children, whether from physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, neglect, natural disasters, or other events beyond their control. Sadly, the effects of trauma can last a lifetime if not addressed properly, affecting their physical, cognitive, emotional, and social development in profound ways. As parents, guardians, or foster care parents, it's crucial to recognize the signs of trauma in children and seek professional help if needed. In this blog, we will explore the statistics on how trauma affects children's development, as well as some scriptures that offer hope and healing.

The Physical Impact of Trauma on Children:

The effects of trauma on the body can be severe and long-lasting, even affecting the brain's development. According to the National Child Traumatic Stress Network, "trauma can lead to changes in the brain's structure and function… creating long-lasting physical and emotional conditions." These conditions may include sleep disturbances, chronic pain, headaches, digestive problems, depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder. Studies indicate that children who experience trauma are at higher risk of developing chronic physical conditions such as heart disease, diabetes, and obesity. Scriptures that can relate to this include Psalm 147:3, which says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."

The Cognitive Impact of Trauma on Children:

Trauma can impair children's ability to think, learn, and process information, affecting their academic performance and future prospects. According to the American Psychological Association, "trauma can interfere with cognitive development, intellectual functioning, and academic achievement." Children who experience trauma may have difficulty with attention, memory, problem-solving, and decision-making skills. They may also struggle with executive functioning, such as planning, organizing, and regulating emotions and behaviors. Studies indicate that trauma can reduce the size of the hippocampus, the part of the brain responsible for memory and learning. Scriptures that can relate to this include Isaiah 26:3, which says, "You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast because they trust in you."

The Emotional Impact of Trauma on Children:

Trauma can leave lasting emotional scars that affect the way children interact with others and themselves. Children who experience trauma may struggle with trust, self-worth, and relationships. They may feel isolated, lonely, angry, or sad, and have trouble regulating their emotions and expressing their feelings. Children who experience trauma are at higher risk of developing mental health conditions such as depression, anxiety, and borderline personality disorder. Studies indicate that trauma can affect the production and regulation of hormones such as cortisol and oxytocin, which play a crucial role in emotional functioning. Scriptures that can relate to this include Psalm 34:18, which says, "The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."

The Social Impact of Trauma on Children:

Trauma can also affect children's abilities to form healthy relationships and succeed in social contexts. Children who experience trauma may struggle with social skills such as communication, empathy, and problem-solving. They may also exhibit avoidant or aggressive behaviors, and have difficulty creating and maintaining friendships. Children who experience trauma are at higher risk of dropping out of school, engaging in substance abuse, and becoming involved in the criminal justice system. Studies indicate that trauma can affect the development of the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for social cognition and empathy. Scriptures that can relate to this include John 14:27, which says, "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid."

Trauma is a significant concern for children's development, and it can have long-lasting effects on their physical, cognitive, emotional, and social well-being. However, it's essential to remember that healing is possible with early intervention, professional help, and a supportive community. As we have seen, there are many scriptures that offer hope and comfort to those who have experienced trauma. As parents, guardians, or foster care parents, it's crucial to recognize the signs of trauma in children and provide a safe and loving environment for them to grow and heal. Let's work together to break the cycle of trauma and create a brighter future for our children.

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How the Lord's Love Can Heal Your Traumatized Child

As a parent, watching your child go through trauma can be one of the most difficult things you'll ever experience. It's hard to know what to do or how to help them heal. As a Christian, one of the most helpful things you can do is remind your child of the powerful love that God has for them. In this blog post, we'll explore how the Lord's love can heal your traumatized child and help them find peace and joy.

1. God as a Comforter When children go through trauma, they may feel alone, scared, and powerless. Reminding them that God is always there to comfort them is a powerful tool for healing. Psalm 46:1 says, "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble." Sharing this verse with your child can help them feel safe and supported. You can also encourage them to pray and talk to God whenever they feel afraid or sad.

2. Forgiveness and Grace Trauma can cause feelings of shame, guilt, and anger. In times like this, it's important to remind your child that God's love is unconditional. He forgives us no matter what we've done and shows us grace that we don't deserve. Talking about the power of forgiveness and how it can provide healing and restoration can help your child let go of negative emotions and find peace.

3. God's Plans for Their Life Sometimes when children go through trauma, they may feel like their life is ruined or that they'll never be happy again. This is where the truth of God's plans for our lives comes in. Jeremiah 29:11 says, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." This verse can provide comfort and hope to your child, reminding them that their future is bright and full of promise.

4. The Power of Community Trauma can be isolating, but it's important for your child to know that they're not alone. Being part of a Christian community can provide a sense of belonging and support that's essential for healing. Encourage your child to get involved in church activities, Bible studies, or youth groups. When they see that other people care about them and are there for them, it can make a big difference in their healing journey.

5. Trusting in God's Plan Ultimately, the key to healing from trauma is trusting in God's plan for our lives. Even when we don't understand why things happen or how to move forward, we can trust that God has a purpose and a plan. Romans 8:28 says, "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." Helping your child to understand this truth can provide hope and healing.

If your child has gone through trauma, it's important to remember that healing is a process. But by reminding them of the powerful love that God has for them, you can help them find peace and joy even in the midst of difficult times. Encourage them to trust in God's plan, to rely on his comfort and grace, and to be part of a Christian community that supports and loves them. With time, your child can heal and move forward into a future that's bright and full of promise.

Empowering Parents: Child Deliverance Coaching

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What old emotions that I am holding onto do I wish to release is the anger that is deep inside my gut. I feel this dark and grey energy burn in the very bottom of my gut going into my lower back. It's causing so much back that is like a severe level of pain. These emotions come from the childhood trauma that has really done a number on me as I am 27 years of age. The most horrible part is that I am gaining very movie-like scenes that roll through my mind like a movie. I seriously can't even enjoy my Orgasms without bawling my eyes out! How did I feel when these emotions first came forward was a betrayal. I was so mad and I was upset because how dare someone take my innocence from me. Where do they have the right to do that to such a young girl to top it off I hate being touched after a climax . I have been that way as far as I can remember. Well, recently I have come to discover why through one of my visions looking back on my childhood...... How do I feel now when these emotions still come forward I feel so pissed that I have such a fucked up mentality that I can't even enjoy lovemaking with my fiance I can't even get through the day at all sometimes because of the amount of time I spend crying because nobody told me how to heal from this. I am so lost, confused, and bitter that I now have more issues. Are there any major lessons jumping out at me from this whole experience, yes there are? My kids will NEVER be without me and I have a hawks view of my babies. Did I realize during the traumatic experience that I was experiencing trauma? Absolutely not. I didn't even know what trauma was. I didn't know how to even get away from it because I was stuck in a fear that had me in a ball outside my mom's bedroom in the middle of the night crying and just confused why nobody cared about me. I am damn near 30 years old and all of a sudden my soul wants me to take a journey of a lifetime with me now having visions about my childhood, I am literally 27 and I realized 1 week ago that was inflicting trauma on me. Trauma; what are the thoughts that come forward when I hear that word or see it is this sad little girl that nobody protected, nobody helped me or saved me. Nobody stood up for me. Nobody patted me on the back and said it was okay. NOBODY had my back when I was young age that I could even tie my shoes! trauma: a deeply distressing or disturbing experience Not one damn person saved me from the scary man that hovered over me EVERY night. I thought they were bad dreams for my whole life til 2 weeks ago I was doing a meditation and self-reflecting I then put the puzzle together. I am supposed to forgive him? I am supposed to say "oh it's okay !" I have no idea where I am supposed to start to even heal that little girl that is begging for me to just make the movies the voices and all the pressure to just ..... STOP!

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The Broken Girls - Simone St. James

Simone St. James' novel about a reporter, Fiona, who is stuck in her small town Vermont hometown still, 20 years after the murder of her sister who was dumped in a field at a haunted, old, shut down boarding school. Even at age 37, the circumstances never add up to her, and though the killer has been behind bars for 20 years, she is obsessed with figuring out how and why. When the Idlewild Boarding School for wayward girls is purchased by a wealthy heiress, in order to renovate and open it back up , it gives Fiona the opportunity to look at the school, her sister's murder, and the town she's called home, in a new light.

I really can't say more about this book than, I picked it up at 7pm, tried to put it down at 1am, but couldn't manage to wait, picked it back up at 1:10am and read until I was finished at 3 am. I wanted to know, I had to know. St. James's heroine's obsession became my own.