”Labels don’t mean anything” well I like my labels because it helped me understand that I’m not unnatural, I’m just different
cis het guy just “calm, logical tone”-mansplained me how labels don’t matter because we’re all the same and all that jazz. And while that may be true, it doesn’t give due credit to all the help it’s given people like me who spent nearly their entire lives believing all the vitriol others have screamed at us about how gay/trans/ace/aro/nb are illegitimate and just us being delinquent and whatever else have you. Did I get upset? Absolutely. Because this twat is a cis het young-ish dude who “dated a [non-binary] girl once”, and suddenly proclaimed to be a wise expert on the subject. Am I the asshole here? Because I don’t think this guy gets to invalidate and speak for us. Help me out, please, fam.
