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insecurities you have that are actually your strengths

one (the lion, the tortoise)

💌8 of swords r, 8 of coins, strength

💎clear quartz

insecurity: takes a long time to complete something or make up mind or move on, wild or untamed nature

strength: strong character

you may have been told your hair is too wild or extravagant, or you’re clothing choices are odd which has lead you feeling insecure. you may have wild fantasies and hobbies that are not the norm. you feel like you are too wild, but you ability to stay free is you’re strength. you are the lion everyone wants to tame and fix, but only you can sculpt who you are, as YOU please. a lot of people gossip about you, but you have learned to ignore them and remain unbothered. you may be used to clapping back and sometimes you really want to, because not saying anything makes you feel weak but, lions don’t have to stoop low to the commoners, they stand majestically in their skin. you are the bigger person. 🦁

you take a while longer to finish things, get out of a rut, end relationships and make up your mind. others may be frustrated with this, but don’t take for granted your slow and steady approach. sometimes change takes time. somethings finishing an important piece of work takes patience. when you deeply care for things you take you time processing it and understanding before you make a decision. not only are you a lion but a steady turtle as well. just like in the story of the tortoise and the hare no one thought the tortoise could win because it had a patient, slow nature(like you) but regardless of what others say, you always finish with grace. 🐢

two (the chess player)

💌emperor r, 8 of cups r, 2 of cups r, 7 of wands, the hanged man, 7 of swords

💎blue aragonite

insecurity: being walked all over, not having personal power, being outcasted, feeling powerless

strength: knows your boundaries, likes & dislikes

you may be a person who enjoys working alone liking for things to be done your way. you may not enjoy compromise or sharing. you like doing things your way and not following the rules like everyone else expects you to. you take the short cuts, and like working smarter not harder. this may make you feel insecure because people may think youre foolish for the way you do things. but you are the only one playing chess, the rest are playing checkers ♟

you dislike authority and traditional relationships. you dislike the feeling of powerlessness, being bossed around and controlled it brings. (i hear that some of you may have a parent or friends telling you, you’ll never find anyone because you so picky.) but it makes you feel caged in. so instead of following the herd you sacrifice people not liking you by defining your own rules, standing up to authority, and setting boundaries. you are able to clearly see deception before it begins, because you hold people at arms length before you let them in.(your strength)

& even when you do let them in, you never give them too much to the point of exhaustion. it’s always a healthy balance of give and take in your relationships. you are not willing to be blindly led.

three (the dare devil)

💌queen of wands, 4 of cups, the emperor

💎carnelian

insecurity: Bold personality, resting bitch face, provocative clothing style, expensive taste

strength: Born leader, rebel

you are clearly not the type of person to put on a fake smile or giggle at someone’s wack joke just to make others like you. you are transparent. not afraid of rocking the boat and looking like a bitch/diva. your resting bitch face intimidates others, so some of you have learned to soften your face to seem more approachable but you don’t have to. we need more honest people in this world.

you hold powerful energy of a born leader or authority figure. you may feel like you need to tone down your boldness and tame your fire, but the sun never stops shining. it shines on all it can, no matter who likes it or not. speaking of shining, you outshine others around you & they don’t like it, yet they still want to be around your powerful energy for their own gain to make them look good. they never want you to know the power of your light. you are bold. you wear sexy revealing clothing, speak directly, probably noticeable tattoos. whatever it is it’s loud, bright and full of life. no need to try and shrink that.

having a taste for the finer things may make you feel too demanding to others. fancy dinners, designer clothing, luxury vacations you desire it all. you have expensive taste and high standards. people will of course convince you you are not worthy of the best of the best, but know that you are. you will align with others that also love luxury and will present to you just that.

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what you’re future partner adores about u 🥰

pile 1. page of cups. page of swords r. the devil. 10 of swords. knight of wands. ace of wands

your future partner finds it adorable how you have a scattered nature like a child. you get excited by many things and could be easily distracted. you get loud and really get into whatever it is that makes you happy. it’s like you have your hand in everything at once and are constantly running around trying to fix everything, and they LOVE this wild nature about you. you definitely cannot be tamed. your mind is romantic, bright and filled with creativity, which you show outwardly through your creative passions (art, singing, fashion, writing, decor, cooking, makeup, gardening.) you are adored by your lover for the little genius streak you possess.

you do not tolerate disrespect from anyone, whether family, friends or whomever, and your future partner loves how you can hold your own. you have stellar comebacks and a bit of a smart mouth..(ok a major smart mouth) but it’s honestly a turn on to them. they are drawn to your sex appeal and confidence. they know they’ve stuck gold with u. they see you as a tease, satans little helper, a naughty child on the naughty list and they LOVE it. they adore your hot temper 🥵 and flirtatious nature because it brings fun and adventure to anything you two are doing. You’re like their drug an addiction. I get that they’re afraid they may loose control of themselves around you! wow

you are not afraid to show your dark side. maybe you have tattoos, piercings, freckles or into taboo things. you might have an evil laugh. you may also be into turtles, snakes. spiders or  unusual animals that people are usually afraid of.

pile 2. the devil. the chariot r. ace of cups r. justice. the fool. 7 of wands r

you future partner may see you as someone innocent or may not have had much experience with relationships. this can be a good or bad thing depending on what you want as a person. they love when you give in to them and submit or forgive them easily. they may like the feeling of teaching you new things (be very careful of deceit) they love the feeling of being in control of you and having you look up to them...so they adore how you adore them. this person is older or more experienced in relationships than you are but, you are free spirited and flexible in many areas in your life and they like that you learn quick.

pile 3. the fool. 7 of coins. 7 of cups. 9 of coins. judgement. 6. angel# 111

your future partner sees you as abundant and fruitful. you have a lot of qualities they admire and so many other options, but they love that you only have eyes for them. you draw major attention when you go out, but you only focus on this one person. you seem oblivious to how attractive you actually are and they love this even more about u. your lover admires your patience with them, your family and in your work life. one step at a time is your motto. i’m sensing water and earth signs or you may be an earthy and watery person(energy wise). someone sensual and magical. this pile enjoys good food, fruit and natural products. you love to be out in nature. maybe you live on a island? you honor what you have and your partner adores this. they love your gratefulness and how you are contempt in your own world. you can make anywhere feel like home to them.  you are level headed and use facts not just opinions and emotions to make your decisions.

Pile 4. sun. magician. the emperor r. king of pentacles. 8 of swords.

ok…these cards remind of rapunzel and her story(if you saw the cards you would understand) you are someone who has had people try to dominate you and keep you from knowing your true power. maybe in the past you have shrunk yourself to try and please your family or others. but you have a hidden talent that shocks people. i mean groundbreaking. maybe a beautiful voice or magic hair 🤷‍♀️ lol, but something very powerful. you are a healer and your future partner adores worships how you have pulled yourself from out of the gutter and have risen like a fucking star⭐️. you have grown soooo much, having expectations put on you but like rapunzel you took a chance on faith and found out how powerful you actually are. you choose not to be in that tower but to be free. (i am proud of u & so is you lover)

but anyways...(totally didn’t mean to go on a disney rant) you hold a lot of power and influence, yet you are not boastful.. you are your authentic self. your partner sees you as a forest full of flowers, tress, birds, bees, waterfalls and just raw beauty. they know there is something very free and divine about you. you see life as your playground now, and love to do the things that make you feel joyous. you’re the type to go after what you want.

you may also be like a business man or lady that likes dressing fancy. either wealthy or financially stable. your future partner loves that they can depend on you. you take care of those you love and have a strong mind but also have a warm and cheerful spirit.

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1st Impressions of U

these are others peoples 1st impressions, so you may not see yourself this way but this is how others may view you at 1st.

pile1} Other peoples impressions of you is that you are a loner and you stay mainly to yourself. You give off gothic vibes. Maybe you are more on the sadistic side with a deadpan sense of humor. It is obvious though you are an individual and don’t follow the rules or tradition. You could care less with you DGAF attitude. (I love it) You may have some Aquarius energy or air sign energies, but you’re seen as a rebel. You come off as if you own world and in you own head. Your aura is very powerful and intimidating.

pile2} You are viewed as high energy and expressive. You may have an animated personality which others are entertained by whether through social media or in person but, you have a big following or friend group. You’re seen as creative and thoughtful with your ideas, fashion, style, makeup, or hair. Whatever it is, it’s spontaneous and it makes you stand out. You are talented at many different things and have many qualities and you don’t share your secrets. You like to make it look effortless. Others look at you as successful and confident, very compassionate, motivated, fun, and proud.

pile3} you’re not easy to open up and others may think your anti-social at first, but when they start conversating with you they see that your a very warm and deep individual. you’re seen as patient and calm. someone who lets the chips fall where they may. you’re seen as feminine, and wise, yet full of quiet ambition. they find that you are confident and content in your own world and you don’t need to socialize all the time to be fulfilled. you might be the type of person in the corner reading a book to themselves while everyone else is talking but you’re not a bit lonely.

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what people say bout you when you’re not around💗

this may not resonate with everyone, this is what others say NOT what is necessarily true. we all know that people do not always have positive things to say

{pile 1} 10 of swords, 9 of wands r, 5 of swords, 10 of cups, the moon

someones family may be talking about a relationship of yours (romantic or platonic) and how you are being manipulated or bullied in a situation. they may be talking about how you are too giving and can be easily taken advantage of, but you cannot see it. you may be hesitant to move on from this person, or feel stuck in the situation. your family may want to reconnect with you and make sure you are alright. (even if you’re not being bullied)  

 the people talking are seeing how you are struggling to stay afloat to follow your dreams, and many may say that you are having a difficult time staying positive. they may gossip on how you see the world through rose colored glasses and how your head is in the clouds. they may not think you are realistic with your dreams since you are a big dreamer. maybe you’ve settled for now and you’re not happy, or doing what you really want to do right now.

someone may be starting a new family and people are talking about how loving this connection is.

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people are talking about how expressive you are. you are bold and open in your sexuality, and very confident in who you are. you may go both ways, but you have a good balance between masculine qualities and feminine qualities. others gossip on how sharp you are with your words. blunt, honest, assertive and argumentative are used to describe you. they see that you are ambitious, and always find a way to make anything work. you may be someone who is always on the go, and on to the next project. people chat about how you NEVER sit still. you know what you want and you have the ambition to go get it. you definitely wouldn’t back down from a challenge.

people talk about how your a little flirt (😉)and super romantic. you can charm peoples pants off (& they love it) yes! you are ultra attractive. many people talk about their crushes on you.

for some, you may be spiritual teachers or very connected to the divine and others talk about how they can console in you and how you give them amazing advice.

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you guys are VERY well known and people have alot to say about u.

you are a star💫. you have some type of talent where others view you in high regard. when you shine, it is effortless. they say you are very confident and you lead a life of your own.(it’s your way or the highway)  they talk about how you don’t have to struggle, or do much to receive the abundance you have. like a magic manifestor. this may intimidate others and many may talk about how you are manipulating others to get what you want. but in reality you just know who you are, what you want and act on it. then everything just comes together for you. you obviously have a quiet power about you, that intimidates others.

although some love this about you and say you are feminine, graceful, and attractive. you are someone chill, but confident at the same time. they talk about how you have a gentle side, which is shown towards your animals and family. (somebody may have a bird or rabbit or just really love and connect to animals) you may live on a farm and be nature lover. people voice how you love peace and quiet, and may be overwhelmed easily.

you are someone who likes nice things, vacations, good food, and jewelry. others say you are high maintenance and a lil boujee.

many of you may be spiritual workers, and mostly work through writing. others compliment your work.

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what type of suitor you attract 🖤

5 of swords, 10 of cups r, the fool r, 10 of wands r, 7 of wands

Your suitors want to be your hero and knight in shining armor. They are the type to do romantic things like write love letters and send you anonymous flowers. They keep there admiration hidden from you, b/c of their fear of opening up and revealing their emotions. They may daydream more about having you than actually making a move and think wayy too much about you. But when they are ready, they will reveal themselves. In the past they may not have had the best experiences with love and relationships. They’ve kept a fighting spirit and will do anything to make it work between the two of you. They have a lot of love to give you, so be ready to receive it.

You do not have to ponder about if this person likes you or not, they will make it VERY obvious. They will compliment you directly, buy you drinks, tell you ‘you look beautiful’ in front of everyone, ask blatantly for your number, and flirt pretty openly with you. You (& probably everyone around) will see the passion in their eyes for you. They have a very straightforward and serious approach towards you. It’s like you are the apple of their eyes and they have tunnel vision; Nothing else around them matters or exists when they see you. This person is quick on their feet and can act sometimes without thinking. They may be a bit impatient and want you right then and there but overall they are mature and realistic.

Q of swords r, the moon r, 10 of swords, 8 of swords, 6 of cups

OK! They think you’re a SNACK. You are very attractive to this person and they want to unwrap and devour you slowly (layer by layer). They love your mysterious nature and sassy character. Hard to get is what they love and you are that, to them. You both may have a dark personalities or a dark sense of humor. They will want to share their joy and warm feelings with you. This person will fall easily for you and may be possessive. You both may be more introverted but will share an emotional connection. Your love will run extremely deep.

ace of cups r, 6 of wands, 3 of coins r, 7 of swords, the hierophant

This person will have a whole strategy on how to win you over. And when they win (b/c they always do) they will show you off like a trophy they’ve won. I see them in awe when they 1st meet you and would love to brag and show you off to their friends. This person is popular and admired by many people for their successes and abundant lifestyle. So they may be older or just very mature and well off in life. Many people look up to them as a leader and someone to learn from. Might come off as a fuck boy or girl, but it’s all an act to get what they want. You may not fully trust them, but this person will pursue you until they get you. Honestly feeling Leo energy lol. This person dislikes sharing you and is very protective. They are sexy and a bit secretive but loves helping others, giving advice and can actually be very trustworthy.

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what’s your aura? (pick a pile)

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you have a blue aura. you appear like a strong authority figure who knows more than you let on. you seem to know exactly how others are feeling. people can sense that you are evolved intuitively and an empath. you may serve as a emotional support guide to others. you come across as a person who believes in love and is very romantic. i’m also getting that your aura is pretty, clean and refreshing like water. people think you have really good judgements and ideas. you can sense the needs of others.

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you have a orange aura. you are seen as a youthful soul. you may wear many colors or be energetic. your aura screams talent. you have many talents and you’ve only scratched the surface of your potential. others think you are naturally gifted. you can also fit in anywhere, not that you don’t stand out but you get along well with people of every kind. you could have a difficult time truly knowing yourself since your always curious and trying new things. you are easily distracted by your daydreams. but this is how you stay hopeful and youthful.

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you have a blackish, purplish, yellow aura. your aura seem pretty chill. you are patient and willing to wait for what you want. superficially doesn’t interest you. you want emotional depth and joy. i’m seeing your in tune with your shadow side and you have learned to use both your yin and yang. you may relate to the story of the ugly duckling. in the past, you were overlooked and put down but now your blooming and proud of who you are. your aura screams quiet confidence. other people see you as lucky, or having the ideal life and being the ideal partner. people are uplifted just by being with you.