PICK A CARD: your first argument with your future spouse
Hello and welcome to this reading! Here I will tell you how the first argument between you and your future spouse will go. I hope you enjoy this reading!
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Pile 1:
The first argument you will have with your future spouse won’t be an explosive one, but it will hurt you regardless. This argument is going to centre around priorities, in specific about one of you two feeling like the other person isn’t making enough time or putting enough effort into the relationship during a busy/transitional time (think about starting a new job, project, moving, or family troubles). You or your future spouse is going to feel a little abandoned, like an afterthought, while the other will be frustrated with the fact that even though they’re doing their best and trying it feels like it isn’t ever going to be enough. This isn’t going to be an argument that comes out of nowhere either; it will be one of those arguments that will come up eventually, you just don’t know when since it builds up over a couple of weeks.
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Pile 2:
You and your future spouse will be having your first argument about privacy and boundaries. One of you two, most likely your future spouse, is going to be very clingy in the beginning of your relationship. They will constantly try and spend time with you, never leaving you alone, always sleeping over and simply just spending every second with you. Right now you might feel like this is something incredibly nice and lovely to have, but the moment you are in this relationship you are going to realise that privacy and time on your own is going to be very important to you, and having someone close to you 24/7 is very draining and just not good for your relationship. You will realise that it is not good to not have a life beyond your relationship; and will fear this is what’s happening to your future spouse. So the moment you two have an argument, it’s going to be about all of those things.
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Pile 3:
Your first argument with your future spouse is unfortunately not going to be the best argument. Your future spouse will most likely do something with a different person that will make you incredibly upset. They won’t actually have cheated on you or anything, but they will have been closer with a specific person than you would’ve liked; think about them meeting with this person in private, sleep over at their place or them going out to a movie or a restaurant all on their own. This is going to be hurtful and cause you some insecurity; and even though your future spouse will get what you’re coming from it’s still going to be a sensitive subject since they had their reasons for doing the things they did. Ugly words are going to be shouted at one another, tears are going to be shed, and you are going to be rethinking your whole relationship. In the end it will get talked out completely, apologies from your future spouse will be given, but it is going to take a couple of days.
PICK A CARD: random sentences that serve as signs the upcoming months
Hello and welcome to this new post! This time I wanted to something exciting with a lot of freedom, hence why I decided to channel some things that might serve as signs for you! I hope you enjoy!
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Pile 1
You will see three yellow cars in a row right before getting an unexpected ‘yes’
The song you used to obsess over in 2018 is about to become your main anthem again.
Keep an eye out for a lost silver item, finding it marks the end of a long energetic delay.
‘I didn't expect to hear from you’ is a phrase you’ll either say or hear very soon.
A sudden smell of cinnamon or vanilla will indicate a ancestor or guide stepping into the room.
Pay attention to a convesation overheard on public transit or in a coffee line; a stranger will utter your exact solution.
You will finally delete that number, and an immediate weight will lift off your chest.
Look for a motif of keys: drawings, antique keys, or keychains, signaling an unlocked opportunity.
A rainstorm will force you to stay inside, leading to a massive creative breakthrough.
A contract or official document you’ve been worrying about will resolve far easier than expected.
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Pile 2
Someone is going to compliment a tiny, specific habit of yours that you used to feel self-conscious about.
You’ll find a handwritten note, old journal entry, or photo that proves how far you’ve actually come.
An apology you thought you needed will suddenly feel completely irrelevant because you’ve moved on.
A lingering scent of lavender will signal that your nervous system is finally settling into safety.
You will receive a text that begins with ‘I saw this and immediately thought of you.’
Watching the sunset on an ordinary weekday will trigger a profound sense of ‘everything is going to be okay.’
A stray cat or dog will approach you with unusual trust, marking a period of deep emotional healing.
Someone will step up to help you without you even having to ask. let them.
You will hear an old family recipe or comfort meal mentioned, prompting a needed night of self-nurturing.
A dream involving deep water will leave you feeling refreshed rather than overwhelmed.
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Pile 3
An email arriving late on a Friday afternoon will contain the news you've been waiting on for weeks.
You will find coins (especially dimes or shiny pennies) in strange places when financial relief is imminent.
A door that felt locked for months will suddenly swing open because someone else stepped out of the way.
You'll overhear someone validating your exact pitch, idea, or dream before you even present it.
A minor technology glitch (like a phone freezing or laptop restarting) will save you from sending a premature message.
The number 888 will appear on a receipt, license plate, or bill right before a payout.
You are going to outgrow a space, literally or figuratively, and the upgrade will feel effortless.
A coffee spill or minor inconvenience will alter your path just enough to put you in the right place at the right time.
An authority figure or mentor will give you credit for something you didn't think they noticed.
You’ll feel a random, intense surge of energy in your hands; use it to write, build, or create immediately.
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WHAT DO YOU NEED TO FOCUS ON TO ATTRACT HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS TO YOUR LIFE
Please be mindful of your words and as it's said not everything might resonate. This is a general reading. Take what resonates and leave the rest. This is for entertainment purposes only.
Close your eyes and take a deep breath after taking a close look at the images. Choose the one that attracts you the most. Feel free to choose two piles if you feel drawn to both.
Credits: Pictures aren't mine. I got it from Pinterest.
PILE 1
Cards; 5 of swords reversed, death reversed, king of wands upright, 2 of wands reversed, judgement reversed, 7 of pentacles reversed, ace of swords upright, 2 of cups reversed, knight of wands reversed and page of swords upright.
Possible signs; scorpio, taurus, aquarius or any fire signs.
In the past you might have been someone who found it hard to let go of things, whether that might be people or materialistic things in general clinging onto them in hopes of them staying in your life even if it meant being disrespected or having been put through conflicts where your energy was clearly drained. You may have resisted changes in your life finding yourself entrapped in the same four walls repeating the same cycle again and again. You might as well have wondered why you were being subjected to the same problems again and again. With the death card popping up with 5 of swords reversed, it clearly indicates a need to let go of whatever you might be holding onto that is no longer serving you any purpose. As rude or insensitive as it may sound love sometimes moving on even if it hurts us for a better future is worth it and clinging onto people who have clearly been stressing you out or have been worsening your mental state wouldn’t do you any good. There might be a part of you overthinking everything or every minute interactions and the universe is advising you to let loose and divert your attention to the pressing issues that matter. There’s a clear need for you to focus on yourself at the moment and even if you feel clouded and the path ahead maybe tricky trust your instincts to lead the way. In case of relationships this is a clear calling for you to step into authority and communicate clearly what needs to be said and heard. Rather than dwelling on what might have happened had you spoken up, gather the courage to speak up for yourself in the relationships that you deem worthy of your time. You don’t need to bend yourself to appease someone that is clearly not what I am saying. However certain boundaries need to be set and whatever that is on your mind should be communicated clearly. Or even shown through the actions. Look past the illusions that may be presented. Cut off people if deemed necessary especially if the relationships aren’t fulfilling. Limit the distractions that might be present. Focus on nurturing yourself and growing beyond. You can’t pour into someone else’s cup if you can’t pour one for yourself. Learn to love yourself. Pour into your own cup instead of expecting someone to brim your cup to the fullest. Expand your horizon and yes this includes exploring other options as well. Stop rushing into love or relationships and pouring into their cups endlessly with no fulfilment or returns. Rather stay clear minded and take decisions accordingly.
Oracle message; Tend to your own inner child. You are advised to keep nurturing your inner child and not let yourself harden even if life throws challenges and hardships your way.
PILE 2
Cards: empress reversed, king of pentacles reversed, queen of wands upright, 6 of pentacles reversed, ace of cups upright, page of wands upright, judgement upright, devil reversed, tower upright, queen of pentacles upright, 5 of wands reversed
Possible signs; Capricorn, water or fire signs
Over indulgence is being mentioned here. Perhaps you might have been indulging or pouring into the cup of your partner or your friends a lot more than they need neglecting your needs and wants in the process. This might even indicate some sort of financial loss or even lending money to person(s) in your close circle in the hopes of their betterment but love you got to stop it. There’s clearly a codependent energy that is being highlighted throughout and whether the said pattern stem from your childhood or as you progressed in life needs to be addressed. You might be over extending yourselves to keep the relationship(s) alive even when the said energy is not reciprocated. There’s a need to set boundaries and reassess the whole dynamic. Step into your power and communicate. Even if some conversations might be hard to initiate do it for your own good. Especially if you feel like you are the one exerting energy and love and resources and the dynamic feels off. Tune into your creative side, let your spark shine through and explore the world. Get out of your comfort zone. There’s more to explore out there if we set ourselves free from the cage we were bound to. You seem to be an artistic person and even if you weren’t you clearly are not one to be tied up. Whatever that may be holding you back needs to be let go of or cut cords with. With the judgement upright there’s a need for awakening. A change needs to occur whether that may be in your personal relationships or the life in general. It may feel overwhelming but what awaits you after chaos is a sense of calmness your soul has desired for. Let go of the self-limiting beliefs or desires or whatever that may be holding you down. Unhealthy attachments seem to be the core issue and if you were to work on yourself nurture yourself further and retracting back the energy you may have poured onto others it will do you good. Overextending yourself or being overly generous will do you no good but harm as the lack of boundaries will have people entitled to your time, energy and resources. The need to set boundaries and healthy attachments is highlighted throughout and I am sorry I am in no form accusing anyone in this pile of attachment issues. If it applies to you take the message as you will and if not, this might not be your pile.
Oracle; Might feel unsupported in the process clinging onto things that may not serve any purpose. Let go and heal.
PILE 3
Cards; temperance reversed, emperor reversed, knight of pentacles reversed, death upright, 8 of cups reversed, 5 of swords reversed, queen of cups reversed, knight of wands reversed, 4 of pentacles reversed, justice upright, star upright
Possible signs; aquarius, Capricorn, libra, aries, Sagittarius, scorpio, pisces
There’s clearly a need for balance in the dynamic you have presented yourself in. Whether the changes that should be implemented for the betterment might be from your side or theirs depends on where you resonate yourself with. An authoritarian figure seems to pop up and this might as well be someone who is quite controlling and demanding of your time energy or resources. They may expect you to attend to them any time or every time they ask you to and clearly this may have taken a toll on you. Again this might not resonate with everyone and for the ones who it wont it more so is about recognising the pattern you usually end up in. Controlling and domineering energies that may like to take the lead in the relationship and perhaps this leads to a bit of an imbalance in the dynamic presented. Perhaps someone in the relationship also has unrealistic ideas of how one should be like. Perhaps you may be influenced by others to set specific standards that you may want your partner or the ones in your circle to follow that might be deemed unrealistic by others. There’s a fear of walking away from something or someone that may no longer serve purpose or have energetically drained you and the universe is asking you to accept the change as it is for the better. Whatever it is that you might be holding onto whether that might be a person(s) or unrealistic expectations or standard let go. Put past what may have happened as there’s clearly a need to heal yourself. Pour into your own cup. Love yourself. Be there for yourself and the inner child that needs to be tended. As the star card may symbolise (the way I interpret it) let go of the water or emotions that no longer is needed or is draining you and is keeping you chained. Rather empty the cup in hopes of refilling it with something better. There is clearly an imbalance as we said in the start being highlighted and perhaps the people you keep meeting may have tried controlling you or were rather expecting you to carry the weight of the relationship while they set themselves free. There might have been some impulsive tendencies involved too and spirit is telling you to bring about clarity to what is needed and not let the connection remain stagnant or imbalanced.
Oracle; Stay strong through the highs and lows as universe has something better for you
PICK A CARD: how your future spouse will display their jealousy
Hello and welcome to this reading! Here I will tell you how your future spouse would display their jealousy. I hope you enjoy this reading!
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Pile 1:
Your future spouse sometimes finds it difficult to be able to really tell you how they feel and where their boundaries lie; communication isn’t always their strong suit and when it comes to possibly preventing jealousy this is very much the case. They are embarrassed about the fact they feel possessiveness and jealousy over you; they see it as being insecure in your relationship between one another and being insecure about themselves as an individual. Your future spouse has a hard time accepting their jealousy as fact and will therefore not tell you (on their own accord that is) whether they’d wish you did something different or not. It’s not as if the littlest of things make them jealous, it does take a lot for them to actually get to that point, but if they know they aren’t too comfortable with something you’re doing they wouldn’t tell you, even if simply making you aware would solve it all. Your future spouse definitely shows off their jealousy by becoming more alienated from a conversation if not a complete group, they might not talk to you as much as they usually do and you would very early on notice a change in your future spouse’s behaviour.
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Pile 2:
You and your future spouse are going to meet relatively early in life, think about the age in which you are still partying around, a bit arrogant at times, possibly still in school (college/university), a frat-boy kind of vibe even. Your future spouse whenever they are jealous will be loud about it, and to you maybe even proud (it’s not like they’re hiding their jealousy, everyone is aware of how they are feeling whenever they start). Your future spouse will walk up to the person that causes those feelings, they will put their arm over your shoulder and hold you close, they might even mock the person that is causing them to feel such ways in hopes of making them feel little and themselves feel like a big predator (I am aware to some this comes over as cringe). This is not something that will stay with your future spouse forever, not at all, it purely has to do with the fact you two will meet when you are both relatively young, and for their social settings your future spouse acts completely normal. Surely, a bit immature, but understanding given their circumstances.
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Pile 3:
Your future spouse is a pretty calm and collected person. If they are jealous they will not make it your problem, nor will it be something they are embarrassed about. They realise that jealousy is a feeling that is normal to everyone, something very human, and it’s okay to feel such feelings; however, it doesn’t mean you can react in anyway you wish. Your future spouse will make it known to you if they’re uncomfortable with you doing something, but they will do so afterwards in private as to not embarrass you or make a big deal out of something that shouldn’t be remotely close to it. When jealousy sparks in a group of people or in public in general they will try to not make it known to you, or at least, not so much that you will feel incredibly bad about something; because that is not something they wish to achieve. The most your future spouse will do is tighten their jaw and semi-aggressively chew on something to eat; because they are aware you secretly like to see them jealous every once in a while, so hiding it completely is not needed.
To kick off this account, I’ve decided to run a ‘pick a picture’ series based on colors and their shades. It’s the first time I’ve done this and I’m not quite sure how it works, so I’m open to constructive criticism and suggestions!
Pile 1: Red Dahlia | Pile 2: True Red | Pile 3: Fiery Coral
♡ PILE 1 - Red Dahlia ಄
The color of a heartbeat that’s starting to speed up, but hasn’t turned into a run yet. There’s motion here, curiosity, and a kind of sharp, honest energy that’s waking you up.
⋆ Cards: Knight of Swords, Page of Swords, Death
⋆ Warnings / Advice: Knight of Cups reversed, Nine of Swords reversed
The Knight of Swords says you’re ready to cut through something. Maybe you’re finally seeing a situation clearly, or you feel a strong urge to say what you’ve been holding back. You want movement, answers, truth — and you don’t want to wait for anyone’s permission. This knight is fast, direct, sometimes a little reckless. You’re not meant to sit still right now.
Next to it, the Page of Swords adds a different flavor: watchfulness, learning, testing. You’re not just charging forward; you’re also observing, gathering information, noticing patterns. You might be more aware of other people’s games, or of your own. There’s a part of you that’s learning how to protect yourself, how to ask better questions, how to spot what’s real and what’s performance.
And then Death lands in the middle like a quiet thunderclap. This isn’t about physical ending; it’s about transformation. Something in you is done. A role, a story, a way of loving or surviving that used to make sense no longer fits. You can feel it. The sharpness of the Swords is helping you see what needs to be released. Death is not here to punish you; it’s here to make space.
You are in a phase of mental and emotional sharpening. You’re cutting away illusions, old defenses, and outdated versions of yourself. You’re becoming someone who speaks more honestly, sees more clearly, and refuses to pretend as much.
♡ Warnings / Advice
Knight of Cups reversed warns you not to let your emotions go underground. You might be tempted to act “cool” or detached, or to swing between intense feelings and total shutdown. Don’t use speed or sarcasm to avoid vulnerability. If you feel something, name it instead of drowning it or disguising it as something else.
Nine of Swords reversed suggests the worst of your anxiety is starting to loosen. The nights of overthinking, the spirals, the “what if I ruined everything” stories — they’re still there, but they’re losing their grip. This card invites you to stop using fear as your main advisor. You don’t need to torture yourself to be “responsible.” Growth doesn’t require punishment.
⤷ A message for you ˎˊ˗
You don’t have to be gentle with illusions anymore, but try to be gentle with yourself.
Use this sharp energy to tell the truth, not to bleed on people who didn’t cut you.
Let things end that are already dead inside you.
And when anxiety whispers that you’ve gone too far, remember: transformation is supposed to feel a little dangerous.
⋆ Affirmation:
I am allowed to outgrow who I used to be.
♡ PILE 2 - True Red ಄
The color of full-on feeling, of heat that’s impossible to ignore. This pile is about pause, pressure, and a fire that’s currently blocked or misdirected.
⋆ Cards: The Hanged Man, Nine of Swords reversed, Queen of Wands reversed
⋆ Warnings / Advice: The High Priestess reversed, King of Wands
The Hanged Man is the heart of this reading. You’re in a suspension period — not stuck forever, but held in place for a reason. Things aren’t moving the way you want, and that’s frustrating, especially with red energy that wants action. But this card says: this pause is part of your initiation. You’re being asked to see things from a different angle, to surrender control a little, to let go of the timeline you had in mind. Nothing is wasted here; you’re gathering perspective.
Next to it, Nine of Swords reversed shows your mind starting to loosen its grip. The worst nightmares, the “I’ve ruined everything” loops, the 3 a.m. panic — they’re still present, but they’re losing their absolute power. You’re beginning to realize that not every thought is truth, not every fear is prophecy. This is progress, even if it doesn’t feel like it. The Hanged Man and this card together say: you’re unlearning old anxiety patterns while you wait for the next phase to begin.
Then comes Queen of Wands reversed, and this is where the red energy gets complicated. The Queen of Wands is normally vibrant, confident, magnetic — but reversed, she’s exhausted, doubtful, or overcompensating. You might feel:
Drained of motivation, like your spark is dim.
Jealous or insecure when you see others thriving.
Like you’re performing confidence instead of feeling it.
This doesn’t mean you’re failure; it means your fire is currently tangled up in pressure, comparison, or burnout. You’re trying to be “on” all the time, and it’s costing you.
Together, these cards say:
You’re in a necessary pause that’s forcing you to confront anxiety and a blocked sense of personal power. You’re being asked to stop forcing the performance of strength and instead admit where you’re tired, uncertain, or overwhelmed.
♡ Warnings / Advice
The High Priestess reversed warns you not to ignore your intuition. You might be:
Overthinking instead of listening.
Pushing away gut feelings because they don’t make logical sense.
Numbing yourself with distraction so you don’t have to feel what’s underneath.
When the High Priestess is reversed, you’re disconnected from your inner knowing. The advice: slow down enough to hear the quiet messages — dreams, bodily sensations, sudden “no” or “yes” that arrive before your brain has a story.
King of Wands is the energy you’re being invited to grow into. Whereas the reversed Queen is scattered or depleted fire, the King is focused, purposeful, grounded fire. He doesn’t need to prove anything; he moves with intention. This card says:
Channel your passion into one or two key directions instead of everywhere at once.
Lead your own life with clarity, not drama.
Use your willpower to create, not to control or dominate.
The King of Wands here is your potential: a mature, directed version of your red energy that doesn’t burn out or perform for others.
⤷ A message for you ˎˊ˗
This pause isn’t punishment; it’s recalibration.
You don’t have to be “on” all the time to be powerful.
Let your anxiety lose its absolute authority over you.
And start asking: If I weren’t trying to impress or prove anything, what would I actually do with this fire inside me?
⋆ Affirmation:
I am allowed to rest and still be powerful. My fire is mine to direct, not to perform.
♡ PILE 3 - Fiery Coral ಄
The color of fulfilled desire, but also of intensity that can overwhelm if it isn’t guided. This pile is about emotional satisfaction, disconnection from intuition, and a choice about your future.
⋆ Cards: Nine of Cups, The High Priestess reversed, Two of Wands
⋆ Warnings / Advice: Knight of Cups, Ace of Swords
Nine of Cups is the “wish card” — contentment, emotional fulfillment, feeling like you’ve gotten what you wanted. On one level, this says you are capable of having what you desire: love, recognition, comfort, pleasure. There’s a part of you that knows how to enjoy life, that can feel proud of what you’ve built, even if only for a moment. This card invites you to allow yourself satisfaction without immediately spiraling into “but it’s not enough.”
Beside it, The High Priestess reversed adds tension. While the Nine of Cups says “you can feel fulfilled,” the reversed High Priestess says “but you’re not fully listening to what your soul actually wants.” You might:
Chase what looks good from the outside but feels hollow inside.
Ignore subtle red flags because the situation feels emotionally rewarding.
Confuse temporary pleasure with long-term alignment.
There’s a risk of choosing comfort over truth, or staying in something that feels good now but doesn’t match your deeper path.
Two of Wands brings in the future and choice. You’re at a point where you can see options: stay or move, expand or consolidate, deepen this path or step toward something new. This card often shows someone looking out over their world, deciding what’s next. Combined with the Nine of Cups and reversed High Priestess, it suggests:
You have some level of emotional satisfaction, but you’re being called to decide whether this is really the life you want long-term, or just a familiar kind of comfort.
Together, these cards say:
You’re capable of feeling fulfilled, but you’re at a crossroads between surface-level satisfaction and a future that aligns with your deeper truth. The question isn’t “Can I be happy?” but “What kind of happiness am I choosing?”
♡ Warnings / Advice
Knight of Cups is the energy you’re encouraged to embody. This knight is romantic, sensitive, guided by feeling and imagination. He follows what moves his heart, not just what looks impressive. As advice, he says:
Let yourself be guided by what genuinely moves you, not just what soothes your ego.
Be open to vulnerability, tenderness, and emotional honesty.
Pursue what feels like a soul-level attraction, not just a safe or socially approved option.
This knight helps you reconnect with the intuitive, feeling side that the reversed High Priestess shows as blocked.
Ace of Swords is the clarifying force. While the Knight of Cups brings heart, the Ace of Swords brings truth, clarity, and a clean cut. It’s the moment of clear seeing: “This is what I really want. This is what I’m no longer willing to accept.” This card advises:
Don’t be afraid to make a clear decision, even if it disrupts your current comfort.
Use your mind to support your heart, not to rationalize staying in something misaligned.
Be willing to speak your truth, even if it changes the situation.
Together, Knight of Cups and Ace of Swords say: follow what moves your heart, but don’t shy away from the clear, honest choice that aligns your outer life with your inner truth.
⤷ A message for you ˎˊ˗
You’re allowed to want fulfillment and truth.
Don’t settle for a life that feels good on the surface but wrong in your bones.
Let your heart lead, and then let your clarity cut away what no longer matches it.
⋆ Affirmation:
I choose a future that feeds my soul, not just my ego.
