I'm fucking screaming at one of the commenters on comfemgem's post
the one who says "people who bend over backwards to avoid offending anyone are the most offensive people are on the planet"
like. has it not occurred to them that the reason ppl say "don't gender strangers" is bc they themselves are trans and experience misgendering from strangers on a daily basis (yes, this would be in ~*the real world*~) and want to encourage their friends to
not hurt people the same way they get consistently hurt
help dismantle the cissexist ideology that says someone of a certain gender Has to look a certain way







