#communicate please

[elliewhrl]

"just look my way

like you used to"

STOP.

[thelylacdaggermemes]

I cannot overstate enough.

PLEASE.

Communicate if you think your partner missed an important detail or just completely misinterpreted. My reading comprehension can be very bad some days. Especially since I have either just gotten off of work, or I am trying to multitask. I have ADHD and it makes it hard for me to read sometimes. I want my partners to let me know so I can correct my mistakes. It's not a big deal to me. At most I'm a little embarrassed.

I promise I won't get mad. And I doubt any of your partners will either.

Communicate. Please.

[artfightdramaconfessions]

Before he started playing, I told my bf that artfight was an art gifting game and not an art trading game and to not expect anything from people he attacks.

He kept attacking me and I’d attack back, but on the final round I couldn’t get around to revenging because of burnout. He’s held it over me and has “joked” about me owing him ever since. I don’t want to draw for him anymore because he was making fun of the attacks we were getting and treats my gift art like a commission (nitpicks everything). I’m so drained and idk what to do

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[coffeeblackandneat]

bathena marital problems you can't do this to me not when eddie is about to get shot

[sunlightnmoonshine]

Here I am in my Yohan and Elijah dealings and I just, I don't think people appreciate how much he has done for her??

Lemme get the bad stuff out of the way which is keeping her locked up and exposed from the world and not communicating well enough with her but with that outta the way

Like let's get one thing straight, Elijah is a teenager, and she's going through her own phase which Yohan has to navigate through. I'm firm in the belief that Yohan and Elijah actually had a good relationship before she found that document and assumed Yohan killed her parents, it was probably at a time when she was going through her own perceptional changes and their communication just fell apart, so it's no wonder we are seeing the lack thereof because they are at that stage.

They have their own ways of communicating though, a sense of teasing and just knowing each other well enough. Being there for each other in their own ways - Yohan himself just watching over her. Heck, Elijah was the one that sorted out that texas punishment situation so it means she helps him out occasionally and clearly she's aware that Yohan is doing something important. It's just that they can't communicate in the more caring sense solely because Yohan thinks it's better for Elijah to hate him and think he's the monster so that she has some way to deal with her grief than keep it bottled up. He's dealing with his own grief and he's trying to help her and thanks to Gaon they got more opportunity for this. It feels like the both of them just leave things unsaid and quietly mull over it.

On the separate note of how he is her guardian and takes care of her?? Elijah is disabled, she's so much more prone to be taken advantage of unfortunately and we've been told she's been in danger multiple times so it's no wonder he's so paranoid and that reminds me or any parent. Jeez parents get freaked out if their kid is in harms way once. Add in the number of times Elijah has been in danger, put in the fact that she can be defenseless and falls for acts of kindness because she's lonely and Yohan doesn't know how to navigate that well, consider how he had to watch her get hurt in the fire and save her in his brothers stead and that she's all he has left. She's literally all he has. So obviously man is gonna be pretty aggravated about her being in danger.

That aside, it's suggested she's randomly gone shopping before, that shes being given an adequate education and has received quite a bit of care and nurturing but for her teenage state of mind there's other things she needs too which is solving her grief which at some point I believe she and Yohan would have worked out.

Say what you will about Yohan but don't ever suggest he's a bad uncle. He a not going to win some best uncle award but he's trying. He's literally destroying a system to pay back her loss. Man is dealing with so much grief and trauma but he's said it himself he is always thinking of her. Always.

[generationonmax]

this scene was so homophobic, why do they have to make her sad right in front of the pride flag

[tirednarrator]

So i’ve heard this story from somewhere here. A tradition that a leader would let their hair grow long during times of peace. And they would cut their hair and give them to the ennemies as a declaration of war. 

Now don’t think about how long technoblade’s hair were during his retirement.

Don’t think about his execution, when he told the butcher army he didn’t want trouble anymore. Don’t think about Quackity taking technoblade hair in his fist and cutting them with his blade, not leaving him any choice.

Don’t think about  technoblade looking at the mirror after his escape. His hair now shoulder lenght. Some of them are still falling when he pulls. He could cut them, it’ll look better that this grotesque cut. He doesn’t.

Don’t think about how his hair are shorter than ever on doomsday, how you could find pink locks at Tommy’s doorstep.