Conditional empathy culture is (only having empathy to those you're attracted to) thinking you were just a really good friend and then talking to someone who was too old/young for you and going "waittttt"
Then it's also "wait I had a crush on you this entire time???"
Also this tends to pair completely badly with aplatonic, demisexual, and/or demiromantic. Ask me how I know (I'm all three)
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