#controllingparents

[divatheawesome]

Home has become intolerable

Dad avoids making plans with the family . And he only wants to save his time and money as far as he is concerned .

Mom wants to just work and complain about life and her health and obsess over my little Brother . His whereabouts what he ate or his psychiatric counselling and suffocate him with her attention .

And she has absolutely no regard for what in my life because obviously she knows best and I’m ungrateful . It’s everything from what I wear , what bed I sleep on . What food I should make and in what way . The arrangement of flowers that I bought myself for my own arrangement . She took the Liberity of planting them in her own room without my opinion . Only to Attack me later that I wasn’t present when she brought the Gardner

If I sleep for an hour more than her , she tells me you know I let you sleep ?

If I try to cook something my way , she refuses . She either makes an order or acts like I’m invisible and cooks what she wants anyways .

I feel invisible . That her free time is dedicated to her projects so she can feel better and I either jump on board of these projects or I’m a bad Daughter .

That I should help around the house because naturally it’s my duty as a girl .

That I should postpone thesis work if she has work coming .

I feel that my life in this house , is only a reflection of what my family wants .

Or else I get the death stares , mean talk and silent treatment to live my life the way they feel and be happy about it too .

And I am tired , angry and upset at the violation . That I feel like an employee in this house . That there are terms and conditions to being a seemingly happy family . That she doesn’t see me . She only sees her projects of phone calls .

That I literally have to keep asking them for some attention .

I don’t know if this makes me childish or petty or ungrateful ,

But I really would like to book a room somewhere . And to just wake up without worry or orders about errands or about being neglected so automatically I just have to pick up those errands . I don’t want to come in between my parents .

But I’m sick of it . I don’t want to feel like a paid visitor here . I Want to feel that I belong .

I don’t feel that I belong here .

It’s her house , her rules and my things or whatever they are , are actually their properties . I feel like a leech who doesn’t get an opinion on things .

Just going on with the life cycle .

This hurts

So much

[highexpectationscounseling]

https://www.lifecounselingorlando.com/controlling-parents/ #controllingparents #parenting #parentslove #parenthood #family #consciousness

[realkingkillian]

I honestly need to take this little dogs advice

[mehmedthesecond-blog]

It’s my Birthday

For my thirteenth birthday my stupid dad finally let me get a Tumblr account. About time! My dad's Empire just beat back the Infidel and killed the White Knight in the White Crusade of John Hunyadí, so that's interesting. <!p>

[disaster-x-strikes]

The day I learned....

- I learned that my own mother can make me feel like a total whore when I told her about me not being a virgin anymore.

- I learned that she thought I was also a loose slut when I told her I'm on birth control, despite not having any sexual partners.

- I learned that even though she calls me beautiful no matter what size I am, she tells me to constantly not to wear certain clothing and to cover up my shameful body when wearing a bathing suit outside of the water.

- I learned that she now thinks, since I'm not a virgin anymore, that I have new responsibilities around the house and start acting more like a house wife.

- I learned how both my parents could say in my face and in front of my whole family, how I never do anything to help around the household, despite that I clean on a daily basis, without a bit of remorse on their faces.

- I learned that they can be total hypocrites. They tell me that I'm not an official adult and will continue to treat me as a child since I have no job......but they're the ones who prohibit me from getting one.

- I learned that even though I had the enough guts to tell them that I'm quite interested in a guy whom I have known for a year and a half through the internet, and that he's interested in me and in meeting them.........they said I'm doing everything wrong, such relationships don't exist, and that they would prefer that I go back with my ex-boyfriend. And they believe and said to me how did I ever made it to college and about to graduate,with a math degree, with such an ignorant and idiotic brain that I have.

- I learned that even if I came up to them with the truth laid out on the table, they said they still don't trust me.

I also learned that I no longer have to put up with it anymore.......going to finish up my degree and leave.

[perseverancecodemedia-blog]

Life Situation Commentary, Series One: "INDEPENDENT-CHILDREN & CONTROLLING-PARENTS", by Raul Cortes Jr.

[perksoflayla]

My parents are so unreasonable it's unreal