From Anonymous
(thought I'd compile the messages as one)
I hate it when Zitaology (Corpseok) gets hate! She's such a sweetheart and she's so nice! She doesn't put extra sugar in her words, she puts in enough for us to know that she's being true. She's not faking everything like other blogs. I actually have a funny story to share with you
This one day, I saw that she was having a rough day (She made a read more text post about it) so I dropped by her ask box and left her a little message, telling her that life can be hard but she just has to carry on. She replied privately and her reply was short and she sounded bored, like she heard that a million times before (which she probably did). But in no way was it rude. I already knew she was having a bad day so I didn't expect her to reply like she's a ball of sugar
And then I left it at that. I felt...a little intimidated by her BUT THEN just a few hours later, she sent me, like, 3 messages saying something along the lines of, "im so so so sorry ;; i was just having a bad day and i really hope you're not mad at me for that reply. please forgive me *kisses your shoes* you're so nice to me and i hope you're not mad ;;" and in that moment I realized how human she is and that behind that whole "intimidating" look, she's actually one of the sweetest things ever
Corpseok, Zitaology, and Admin L are just people who don't like to put up fake fronts. If Jia is upset, she'll tell you and it'll show through her words. But she's always the first person to apologize, even if she didn't offend the person at all, it's just that she's sick and tired of lying and being someone she's not and I think people should be like that. She's giving the world only pieces of herself. She's not letting it have her whole and she's incredibly strong for sticking out like that.
They all seem like wonderful people. But you did say something that bugged me, and I feel the need to address it or else it'll eat at me.
"She's not faking everything like other blogs" the term fake just really bugs me. We don't truly know "the other blogs", so we have no right to judge them as fake. Just because someone is very pleasant, nice and "sugary" doesn't make them fake. And it's a bit strange how those two things have become correlated.
But either way, they are all lovely girls - and I love how "human" they are, if that makes sense.
-Topaz
I have to totally agree with all of this. As someone who got to know her personally, she’s one of the sweetest, most caring people I’ve ever met. She’s also very sincere. It really upsets me that someone who’s helped me so much get such virile hate because I feel blessed to have had the chance to even know her. She’s wicked funny too :)
But please don't just assume someone is "fake" if they are really sweet to you. Some people are genuinely like that and some make the effort to be like that even when they don't feel like it for the sake of others. As long as someone is usually a kind, decent person then there is no right or wrong way to deal with your struggles and others. If you back away, if you can't hide your emotions, if you put your efforts into making others smile when you're sad - they're all perfectly acceptable.
I think, even if someone makes the effort to be extra sweet, given the right reasoning it's not fake at all. It shows they're motives as a person. It's also perfectly fine to be sincere (and polite!!) and let your emotions show. Honestly, as long as you try and be a good person, that's not fake. It's a desire to make the world a better place.
- Ruby
(I'm sorry I use too many words!!! I just think everyone is doing just fine and needs a hug and a pat on the back for trying...)
