All this discourse about different perspectives on certain scenes, and everyone’s differing interpretations of the same scenes just gave me the biggest wake up call ever.
What we are watching, at the end of the day, is an artwork. And meaning found in art is subjective to its audience.
Rather than everyone hating on each other for it, we should try seeing the beauty in our differences of opinion. Art is beautiful because of how it makes you feel, and sometimes the things you feel are uncomfortable - but that discomfort gets you thinking, and that’s important.
Absolutely let’s keep passionately discussion our interpretations, but maybe people should stop sending *literal hate* to the ask boxes of people who just want to keep the discussion going.
( Thanks for being one of these people @thetaoofbetty )
i agree, art is subjective and we should all give everyone the space to have the opinions and feelings they have on it.
i think the biggest issue for me when it comes interpretation is when people mistake the discomfort of their failed projections onto it as an external issue rather than an internal one and start playing the blame game; on the art, the artists, the people who aren't enjoying or hating it in the right way, etc.
and, as we know, stories aren't always comfortable to experience. things that are compelling don't always come wrapped in rainbows. there are a lot of teenagers (and adults, unfortunately) who have figured out the best way to deal with their discomfort is to label it problematic, harass people online, and surround themselves with an echo chamber to reinforce their perceived morality of usually western culture and how it should be.
i think it's important to remember that a lot of these people in our inboxes are spending a lot of time focusing on something that doesn't bring them happiness because they're getting something out of feeling superior for hating it.
"anger and jealousy can no more bear to lose sight of their objects than love." -george eliot
they can't stop looking at our pages or worrying about what we're writing or thinking about because they're in a constant negative feedback loop. and they bring it to us, the bugheads who are just vibing along, because they want us to be as unhappy as they are.
which, you know, is a them problem. but again, i agree, it's all subjective and there's no need for hate in anyone's inbox. it always says a lot more about them than it does about us.