#crushasks

[life4lovers]

Is there still...a crush community on tumblr?

[help-ive-got-feels]

(part 2) lots of touching from my part and him not minding, but I didn't feel like starting anything. It's like he was saying "yeah I'd bang you but it's up to you to make a move", he's just waiting, knowing I'm interested. I kinda don't like this kind of "big-ego" behavior but I just wanna get that d, soo how can I approach him and get my intentions straight without spoiling our "friendship"? Like he's not the kind to make things awkward but how should I act rn

Ahhh this guy sounds so annoying haha but I understand if you just want to smash. Personally i would keep teasing the idea with flirting and touching until you get more than just “he doesn’t mind”. Go for a “his body language or response says YES”. Then talk to him and say exactly what you want or don’t want from him. It’s less awkward if you talk about it while you both are feeling the pull rather than randomly mentioning you want a casual fling one day when you haven’t been flirting with him. That’s the easiest way to get your intentions straight. Key here: Tease then define it yourself to him before getting physical so nobody gets their feelings hurt.

Good luck! Love to hear updates :)

-AD

[help-ive-got-feels]

so i have a friend and we both like each other in a crush way but he’s telling me to move on because he isn’t ready. What should i do?

So he has a crush on you but he doesn’t want you to have a crush on him? I think if you want to keep pushing this I’d try to find out what exactly he’s not ready for by talking to him. Find out if it’s hes really busy—which you can counter by mentioning you’re willing to accompdate. OR if he’s just not ready to be “tied down” or exclusive which—if that’s what you want, I would take his response as sign to actually move on.

A lot of people feel like they want to be in a relationship but aren’t ready for the things that happen in it like meeting parents, and seeing each other all the time, and being physical...which can be negotiated. But others who aren’t ready because they want to play the field should not be negotiated with lol. But communication is so key here since you are friends first and don’t want to ruin that. :)

Good luck!

-AD

[jolynesapphic]

his name is sam and he is sooo cute and hes tall and hes funny and he has beautiful hands and he likes the same video games as me and he is just??? so gr9. hes in band w/ me, oh and he has these eyebrows man. they are the thickest eyebrows i have ever seen and they are so cute they are adorable. wah ive liked him for over a year now

aHh im squealing i love hearing you talk about sam oh my gdo (｀・ω・´)”eee you continue bein cute with ur crush sarah uvu