#cutallties

[iona-walker-blog]

As I begin the next part of my journey, it's time to start cutting all ties with some people..... The first steps already taken as I started to spread my wings on the last part of my journey..... Thankfully I have more than enough good genuine friends/family to not think twice of the crap left behind #onwardsandupwards #bringiton #journey #cutallties #goodbye #byebye (at Gronant)

[blessedcoils]

#Repost @oneisangels (@get_repost) ・・・ #MorningMotivation #ListenAndLearn #PlainAndSimple #CutAllTies #StopHoldingOn #LetThatMarinate

[savemenoodleman-blog]

SHE.

[gaezed]

most of the time when I stop fucking with somebody, it's not because I don't like them. I just don't like the way they moved when fucking with me. ✂️

[dawndawn]

Think I've just done something great for myself

Letting go....sounds so poetic

but it isn't

its hard and it sucks and its all fucked up

God please give me the strength

I don't even know why I'm so attached to him

I could do without other men so easily

I just cling to him emotionally

all the bad stuff just made me cling tighter

its like

when you have a weird unhealthy dynamic with someone

it doesn't matter how mad you are at them

it doesn't matter how upset or hurt you are

or if you're happy with them

or if you're depressed about them

every fucking emotion you feel about them

or their actions

makes the bond grow stronger

omg u hurt me

cries. then loves you more

omg you said something that made me feel special.

smiles. then loves you more.

Good God where does it end?

Can I consciously stop loving him?

I pray that I can

I don't want to hate him

Father forgive him for he knows not what he does

He is how he is for some reason

something made him who he is today.

So I have to forgive him

for the hurt he caused me

in order to grow

I need to breathe in

then exhale and

release the anger hurt pain and resentment

those dark emotions

won't do me any good

I've learnt

He came into my life.

He taught me valuable lessons

he taught me to be tougher,

to be less naïve,

to have high standards

to have self respect

to teach people how to treat me.

Through the pain,

I learnt how to avoid more pain.

I want to be the type of person

that grows as the result of their pain

not the type who crumbles

and withers away.

God give me strength

To forgive

but never, ever forget.

for in forgetfulness

lies danger.