I’m gonna rephrase that question-
What would be the pros and the cons of dating zander???
Pros and Cons to dating Zander?…
Get to go on cool dates with a pretty attractive guy
Will 100% play video games with you
Will buy you things that you ask for if you’re good to him
Will always find a way to make you laugh or crack a joke
He’d probably find the places you choose for dates stupid, and be rude about it. But if he does like it, he’s still gonna find a way to be rude or mean about something else.
Sure he’ll play video games with you, but only the ones he likes. Otherwise, he’s ignoring you. He doesn’t really care about what you like.
He’ll only buy you things if you do him favors. Not from the generosity in his heart (he hardly has any.)
He’ll make very offensive or dark jokes at times. Yes, this has no limits to what topic or person it may be. He would 100% be canceled for his controversial jokes (that sometimes sound serious) and you will end up feeling quite uncomfortable.
He’s MEAN to you. He will shove you, push you around, degrade you, or coax you into doing self destructive behaviors. In public or private—he does not care.
He doesn’t actually love you! Not only is this man Aromantic but he simply dates to fufill his selfish needs and finds dating as a way to pass time and get what he wants. Sure, he’ll act romantic here and there, but only because he wants something. There are very few to little times where he genuinely likes someome, and even then, he’s not all that well to them either and doesn’t treat them well.