This was an anon ask that I had literally JUST posted when my blog went down, but since I have it saved I may as well just post it again LMAFO
TV-MA - MDNI explicit sexual content, I'm not tagging all the kinks here cause it's ya know, a kink list so read at your own risk, everything is totally consensual!!
STEPH
> I'm unsure what its called but she's obsessed with holding you / you sitting on her lap while you get yourself off. Like she LIVES for it. She'll rub your back and belly while you do it and everything, tell you you're so good and pretty. She wants to take care of you and make you feel safe, and what better way to do that?
>Coming off that, mutual masterbation. Maybe the last one fits into that category??? But anyways, she loves getting off together. The ability to do your own separate things while being so intimate and vulnerable gets her soft.
>Chasity gear shit. Once you guys have been together for a while and she trusts you a lot - you'll be her keyholder once in a while. At one point she came home to show you this mf:
You guys went for hours that night.
>Painting your body. And she does really pretty designs - anything you want. She's found these fancy body paints so it's comfy and actually stays on and wanted to try them out, but little did she know how horny it would make her. The way the brush smoothly slid across your skin, you covered in her favorite colors.
You ended up staining her sheets - but she didn't toss them out, instead, she held onto them like some sort of trophy.
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EVAN
> As I mentioned before but am wholly bringing up again cause I'm obsessed with this - he's got a thing for being needed. To any degree! You need him to provide emotional support? Need him to provide physical labor? Pick up groceries? Get menstrual products? Need him to rub your back? He's hard already.
We could psychoanalize this all day long and there's a bunch of reason that could have caused this, but the man needs to be needed.
He enjoys being there for people, letting them know he shows up for them. And if you ask him for something or tell him you need him while you're sleepy or all fucked out, it makes him feel all fuzzy and tingly.
>He also likes butt stuff. It doesn't matter if he's taking dick or strap on or dildo or what have you (fist) - Bend him over and pound that boy, he'll be crying until sunrise.
Genuinely GRIPPING and SOBBING. And while yeah, he obviously just likes how it feels, what really gets him going about it is being *used* for your pleasure. He'll let you bounce him on it all day long.
>Watersports. Idk, he just... strikes me as someone who's secretly into that shit 😭??? So whether youre a squirter or do it intentionally he's going nuts (pun intended) - he loves having your juices dripping off him. It really makes him feel like a got in you, ya know? Which probably ties into him wanted you to need him and wanting to make sure he does good, but.
>SHOCK COLLAR. You got it as a joke and then came home early from work one time and found him playing with it on his bed. It's since become a regular activity. It also puts a quick end to arguments when you threaten to put the shock collar on him.
Something about the otherwise harmless pain really gets him going, especially when you're controlling it so the sensation is unexpected. He plays with knives all day long, but he's too big a sucker for safety (including in the bedroom) to incorporate any sort of potentially harmful or scarring activities. But he'd be lying if he said he doesn't like it when he's yelping in pain by your hands. He likes the violence of it.