is silence, submission?
Our journaling club had a prompt this week that has been on my mind.
"Some submissives feel that expressing needs or speaking up somehow conflicts with their submission. Do you relate to this?"
Personally... this feels like the opposite of my submission.
Honesty and openness are integral in our dynamic. I learned that fast--even before I was officially collared. My Daddy wants to know what I'm thinking and feeling, not what I think He wants to hear. If I'm not honest...how is He supposed to know what I need? How would He know what is bothering me, or when I need His comfort?
A strong dynamic can build the connection, making it feel like we're reading each other's minds... but when it comes to conflicted feelings, or concerns, we can't wait around for the other person to magically understand. Instead, we work hard to share our thoughts with each other. We listen to each other and create a safe space to speak freely.
I don't need to be afraid to share my deepest, most vulnerable thoughts and feelings with my Daddy. He welcomes all of them as part of my submission and surrender to Him.
