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had a very good date with blorbo guy!!!!!!!
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had a very good date with blorbo guy!!!!!!!
So my first date ever was last Saturday and it didn't go as planned and afterwards all I could think of was...
"This guy would've been way better"
Having a lazy summer morning and thinking about life and dating and sex and how to fit everything in all at once.
Working nights means my wife has a bunch of nights when I'm out to find dates and makes plans, while I only have a couple evenings free when I could potentially hook up with someone.
I wonder if I need to find a good daytime play partner, and if so how the heck to go about it. I have plenty of cute people flirting with me at the bar, but trying to hook up at 1am after a long shift isn't exactly ideal.
Poly/ENM is a strange beast, and having different schedules and different lives often feels complicated, especially when things are somewhat one sided like they are now.
I think I'll figure it out, but in the meantime I'm missing community and being around other ENM people on the regular. Both for dating purposes and friendly purposes.
But NYC is big and I suspect putting myself out there a bit more will bear fruit.
I hope you're all having good mornings and enjoying the same lovely weather we have in Brooklyn right now.
Via cheezburger.com
Slightly jarring to see people incorporate Palestinian liberation into their cutesy dating app bios. On the one hand, I get wanting to make sure you're weeding out anyone with political views that would be a deal-breaker. And I know I'm going against the tide here, with all the endless quirky permutations of leftism as self-branding and social signalling. 'here to meet anti-capitalist cuties!!' 'just trying to smooch hotties and dismantle this racist ableist colonialist fatphobic system' I don't even mind political stances listed for filtering purposes. It's when it's... Creative. There's something about treating a currently ongoing genocide in that same way that feels, idk, vulgar. Distasteful.
Told that man how I felt and didn't let up on making him take accountability.
Ain't heard shit since yesterday morning.
Because honestly, wtf can he say? That I'm right? That it doesn't take long to pick up the phone and text/call to say that things are busy on your end, so you can't follow through with the plans made prior?
...I'm slowly but surely getting more strict 'round this bitch.
I ain't gon' find the love of my life letting folks walk all over me and cast me to the side like an afterthought.
'Cause the love of my life WOULD NEVER.
I think I have a crush on a man. It’s time for me to disappear into the mountains
Be warned. I have transformed into a romance hating gremlin, and any instance of PDA in my presence will earn you an old fashioned duel to the death.