(Sorry to harp on about the ace discourse if you're uncomfortable with it) the problem I have with LG people being against allo terms because it "lumps them in with straight people" is that the same people are often actively lumping ace people in with straight people. I find it upsetting that they can be so vocal about thinking something is harmful, but then turn around and be so vicious and awful to ace people in the same way they claim they're being harmed. 1/2
2/2 Like obviously, I won't force anyone to accept a term they're not comfortable with, it's the reasoning that I take issue with; don't lump is in with them, but f*ck off you're not one of us, you're one of them.
I don’t disagree with you at all here, but I would also like to not talk about this furthermore...