🔥🔥 hit us with a couple of unpopular rp opinions
UNPOPULAR OPINION TIME !!
-> the 'no one owes you anything' mindset has been taken a little too far, i think. it's gotten to the same kind of stretch as 'the customer is always right', even if we don't like to think about them in the same vein. while no, you don't technically owe anyone on the internet a goddamn thing, it's still polite and respectful and humane to give someone that you have built a relationship of some kind with an explanation as to why you're blocking them or dropping the ships or whatever. it doesn't have to be super detailed! it can be something as simple as 'we don't vibe anymore' or 'you posted something i really don't like' or whatever, but we've gotten way too comfortable just ghosting people we considered friends or partners. 'no one owes you anything' should apply to things like keeping a thread, answering a meme, etcetera. it does not apply to anything wherein you are disconnecting from someone you've built any sort of relationship with.
-> if you tout that you don't care how long someone takes to do something in relation to you, whether it be ic or ooc, but someone takes longer than you expected and you get mad about it or block or whatever? you're not actually accommodating. yes, this applies to situations where the person you're waiting on is doing other things actively elsewhere. you cannot say you don't have a time limit, but drop threads or block people or get angry when they take a while to get to your stuff. you also cannot say you have no time limits, then when someone doesn't respond to you ooc for a few days, block them. it's hypocritical and rude. be open and honest about what you expect out of people. if you tend to unfollow / softblock if someone's inactive on a blog for x amount of time? say that. if you want an answer to an ooc message in a specific amount of time? say so, or check in after some time has passed. a lot of us also seem to forget that most of us are 30+ with lives outside of this site and its outliers, but still pretend we're in our late teens, early 20s and able to be on top of things 24/7.










