#demiasensual

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Demisensual Hearts

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being demisensual!! Recently discovered this, and it’s awesome!! However, now I’m also aplatonic, aromantic, asexual, afamilial, the sorts. With absolutely no level of love/attraction in… any. So like, I need a close bond with someone, but it’s kinda hard to get that close bond when I don’t even want a friend. It makes me feel kinda bad sometimes, because like… I don’t want to have any kind of relationship with people, other than like… Whatever it is that constitutes me and another person being able to hold hands, hug, ect. I have a friend, that gets this, I think. I’m pretty sure they think of me as a friend, although I don’t really see them that way, there isn’t really a good term tho, so i just say friend because it works. Especially with how the aspec community handles some topics, it feels kinda isolating, but at the least I have very supportive people around me, so I feel better about it.

I'm so happy for you to have supportive people around you, keep being your authentic self, anon. Remember, no matter what some people may say, you are valid. Don't feel bad for not wanting any sort of relationship; in the end, always do what's best for you <22

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Asensual + touch-averse culture is being an age regressor and having a bad day so you decide to go look up caregiver headcanons for your favorite characters so you can regress a little.

And then you get to the parts about them giving you hugs or cuddles or holding your hand or touching you in any way. And you just nope the hell out of there. Like, I would punch them if they tried that. I don’t want to punch my favorite character.

I wish there was more agere content for the touch-averse and touch-repulsed.

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[asensual-culture-is]

Asensual culture is not knowing if your asensual because of neurodivergence or you genuinely dont feel the attraction towards people (i do towards objects tho, specifically soft plushies)

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Asensual culture is having a partner and fearing you're not touchy enough for them.

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Asensual culture is sometimes wishing to hold someone's hand or hug them, but it is not attraction and more a desire to be noticed and included in things.🥲

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Asensual - culture is only being okay with touch if I initiate it. (Remembering all the times I’ve been nudged or touched w/o my permission and really hating it)

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Asensual culture is being constantly touched by a boy at work and not having the courage to ask him to stop so just having to deal with it