I don't think we should be encouraging those with racial desirdae identities to be doing things to their skin. You cant transition your race, you shouldn't even try, so instead of giving them tips on transitioning their race, we should be giving them tips on coping through it
Yeah, I think that a person who wants to have, for example, a darker skin tone will come to the conclusion of "let me go out and get a tan" and there's nothing wrong with that. Tanning is not unethical, but like. Telling people "oh you're desirrace, go get a tan so you will have darker skin" is like. Exactly the same as "you're transrace go get a tan so you'll have darker skin" like. That's what we're trying to stay away from
I say this because I saw a post of desirdae tips that was like word for word something that I saw when I was running a transid blog like this. We have to be considerate of what we put out there because people are already on our asses about being no different from transids
I say this with no hostility towards the person by the way, part of the reason I made this blog was to talk ethics, so I'm talking ethics