My bf (22M) doesn't offer anything now that I'm (22F) injured but I give him things when he's sick
For easy reading, i would number my concerns: we're only 3 months When my bf told me he was sick (has cold), I immediately sent him fruits for recovery. I'm currently injured and went into a bad accident where I catched a scalding burn on my face and is so shy to show my face to him. He's seen me though, throught the pics I sent him. I forbid him to visit me at home since I'm mind conditioning myself into gaining back ny confidence alone, while healing, and waiting for my followup for the next step of my burn scar removal. My mama keep asking why he hasn't visited me, and I answered the truth where I told him that if he visited me, I would automatically breakup with him. He's asking me if I want fruits because he will send some if I want to. My mama tells me that if a guy truly loves me, he will at least send something if he's truly concern, now that I forbade him to see me. It's not that I'm asking for any return for the things I sent him when he was vulnerable. But my mama makes sense. That, why can't he send whatever he wants to send me VOLUNTARILY. Why does he have to ask me? For reference, it was a second degree burn on my face.
You threatened to break up with him if he attempted to support you. Of fucking course he's asking before doing anything??? You're being rather unreasonable and unpredictable. If you want compassion and kindness, then you can't snap at people when they do offer it. They learn fast not to do that again.
Happy healing.
