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Jamie johnson would have been improved by a toxic buzzy slowburn between jamie and dillon. THERE’S STILL TIME!!!

#jamie johnson #dillon simmonds #this is actually too niche for tumblr #i need them to have a really heated argument #in which dillon is repressing his feelings #jamie’s just fucking confused #STORY OF HIS LIFE #boggy can be here too why not. emotional support

PATRICK WARD as Dillon Simmonds 2018-20 • Jamie Johnson • S04-05 • dir. Joe Talbot

#insert him into the heartstopper universe pls #very cool and refreshing character arc #lov how they made him handle his sexuality? he woznt all 'im a futborla i cant be ghei like' toxic masculinity #and he woznt even made to go chasing beards neifer - he just knew girls werent his thing #and all he had to do was come to terms with it and he did it all w/o apocalyptic toxic masculinity rage #Sports #football #dillon simmonds #jamie johnson #jamie johnson bbc #queer characters #gay #lgbt #footy #futból #world football #queer #homophobia in sports #patrick ward

today a football player came out as gay. We don't know who he is because he didn't feel comfortable in stating his identity, we just know that he plays in premier league. This is the letter that he wrote:

"As a kid, all I ever wanted to be was a footballer. I wasn’t interested in doing well at school. Instead of doing homework, every spare minute I had was spent with a ball. In the end it paid off. But even now I still have to pinch myself when I run out and get to play each week in front of tens of thousands of people. However there is something that sets me apart from most of the other players in the Premier League. I am gay. Even writing that down in this letter is a big step for me. But only my family members and a select group of friends are aware of my sexuality. I don’t feel ready to share it with my team or my manager. That’s hard. I spend most of my life with these guys and when we step out on the pitch we are a team. But still, something inside me makes it impossible for me to be open with them about how I feel. I dearly hope one day soon I will be able to. I’ve known since I was about 19 that I was gay. How does it feel having to live like this?Day-to-day, it can be an absolute nightmare. And it is affecting my mental health more and more. I feel trapped and my fear is that disclosing the truth about what I am will only make things worse. So, although my heart often tells me I need to do it my head always says the same thing: “Why risk it all?” I am lucky enough to earn a very good wage. I have a nice car, a wardrobe full of designer clothes and can afford to buy anything I want for my family and friends. But one thing I am missing is companionship. I am at an age where I would love to be in a relationship. But because of the job I do the level of trust in having a long-term partner has to be extremely high. So, at the moment, I avoid relationships at all. I dearly hope I will soon meet someone who I think I will be able to trust enough. The truth is I just don’t think football is ready yet for a player to come out. The game would need to make radical changes in order for me to feel able to make that step. The Professional Footballers Association say they are ready to help a player to come out. And they have said they will offer counselling and support to anyone who needs it. This is missing the point. If I need a counsellor I can go and book a session with one whenever I want. What those running the game need to do is educate fans, players, managers, agents, club owners — basically everyone involved in the game. If I was to make that step I’d want to know that I would be supported at each step of my journey. Right now, I don’t feel I would be. I wish I didn’t have to live my life in such a way. But the reality is there is still a huge amount of prejudice in football. There are countless times I’ve heard homophobic chants and comments from supporters directed at no one in particular. Strangely it doesn’t really bother me during the matches. I am too focused on playing. It’s when I get back on the plane or the coach and I have time to think that it gets to me. As things stand my plan is to carry on playing for as long as I feel able to and then come out when I have retired. It was great last month to see Thomas Beattie raise his hand and admit to being gay. But the fact he had to wait until retirement tells you all you need to know. Footballers are still too scared to make the step while they are playing. For the past year I have been getting support from the Justin Fashanu Foundation, not least to cope with the toll this is all having on my mental health. It is hard to put into words how much the Foundation has helped. It has made me feel supported and understood as well as giving me the confidence to be more open and honest with myself especially. Without that support I really don’t know where I’d be now. I know it might get to the point where I find it impossible to keep living a lie. If I do my plan is to retire early and come out. I might be throwing away years of a lucrative career. But you can’t put a price on your peace of mind. And I don’t want to live like this forever."

And that is why a show like Jamie Johnson is so important. Gay footballers live in fear. Fear of what their teammates will think, fear of what the fans will say and fear of ruining their dream. It's 2020, and football is probably one, if not the most homophobic enviroment in sports. Gay footballers should be able to be who they are and do what they love without fear of being insulted and discriminated. Like this footballer said, everyone involved in the game should be educated about this topic. Jamie Johnson is doing an amazing job portraying the fear of ruining your dreams just because you aren't straight, and that is why, people should watch this show.

edit: please, don't try to figure out who he is, he clearly wants to remain anonymous and I know for a fact that a lot of people are already looking for clues about who he is. Please respect his privacy.

Edit: I found the full letter, that's heartbreaking.

You can make all the excuses in the world, but your attitude totally changed the second you found out I was gay. And don't deny it. If you've got a problem with who I am, then at least have the guts to admit it.