#discovering yourself

[thepersonalwords]

Extraordinary breakthroughs are only ordinary breaks that were grabbed, explored, improved, maximized and harnessed to a profitable maximum

Ikechukwu Joseph, Discovering Yourself

[blackswaneuroparedux]

On ne lit jamais un livre. On se lit à travers le livre, soit pour se découvrir, soit pour se contrôler.

Claude Roy

[rendiamberspirit]

@flor-of-desert and I wrote this for day one of @ace-tobirama-week Coming out/Exploring Asexuality

Tobirama has always felt like there was something wrong with him for not having the same desires everyone else seems to have. After a night of drinking and misunderstandings the most unlikely person shows him there is more to sexuality than just finding a woman desirable.

An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works

[heinrichsbscorner]

https://x.com/heinsgamingarea/status/1841534355627196807?s=61

I could have finished shaded this piece… but I didn’t. Reason being is because I want to work on some other projects and this one took me… So much longer than it should have. So have Victini finding out their true self. ❤️

[megsiepoo]

An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works

            "Herr Scout believes that you have been using friendly fire against the team, ja? I would certainly not accuse you myself, not without proof. However, surely you can understand how odd the past week has been." He paused, allowing his words to sink into Soldier. The man's feet shifted, discomfort written into his rigid form. "Herr Soldier, was he right?"             "That maggot thinks I am sabotaging this team! But I have only led us to victory!" he responded. Too quick, too enthusiastic. And still, the question remained unanswered.             "Ja, our efforts have been impressive. But still, this is a team, is it not? Answer the question, bitte."             "I...," Soldier faltered, grasping for his next words carefully. "I have only done what seemed right."             "Soldier," Medic growled, his reserved poise seeping out as his bubbling anger began to fester. He was tired of these games. He stalked close, pausing right in front of Soldier as the man shrank where he stood. Medic wasn't much taller than Soldier, but in that moment, Soldier felt the German towering over him.             "Did you kill our teammates and abuse my ubercharge?"

It's finally doooooone! Been working on this one for weeks. Definitely did not intend for it to turn out this long, but here we are.

Thanks to all who read! Feedback appreciated as always. And just to let you guys know, it might be a bit before I post another fic. Mental health is kind of garbage right now, but we'll see. I'll try not to take too long.

[ridiculousimplicity]

Heartstopper Ep 8

Charlie..never say that things would be better if you didn't exist. Never say that. You mean so much to your family, to your friends, to Nick and Nellie and countless others.

Fuck those idiots who think that they can bully you and make your life miserable and who blame you for their own stupid mistakes. They are not human beings. They're just plain idiots.

Oh Tao, you've got it so wrong. He didn't forget you. He was biding his time to tell you because you showed the most animosity towards Nick and were fiercely protective of him. He cares so much about you, hon. (TnT) Oh god, I dunno what to do..

Listen to yourself, Tao. You should talk to him too. Good going, Nick!

This entire conversation between Tao and Nick during lunch is so significant. Never have they had a one on one conversation and that too about Charlie. Do you see how much you love Charlie, Tao? Do you see how much you love Charlie, Nick? Do you see how much Charlie loves you two, you dorks?!

Ben is such an attention seeker. xD Honey, nobody giving you any clout. Buzz off.

CHARLIE!! You are growing up, boy! Yess, take the reigns of your life in your own hands and flip the people off who aren't worth your time!

Seriously, we all know Ben hates himself for having feelings for a boy and how he projected that anger and shame onto Charlie to feel better about himself.

Aww.. You two friends (Char & Tao) are making me tear up! Go have fun, it's sports day, babies! :D

Aww.. I wanna frame that picture Tao's made! :D

There was a moment there between Tao and Elle! *gasp* But Elle went ahead and broke it! xD

OMG!!! Tao can feel it to NOW!!! *squealing in joy*

"..as some teenagers crash into each other and fall over repeatedly."

Never have I heard such a hilarious description of rugby in my entire life! Bahahahaha..🤣

Woah! It was so filmy to see Nick throw the ball and focus entirely on Charlie.

And don't think I didn't notice Imogen feeling happy to see Nick and Charlie. :)

My heart! (TuT) Let me bawl my eyes out in peace and in happiness, of course!

Everyone should be able to have a partner who loves you, respects you and your wishes, and doesn't let you make stupid decisions like leave them just because you think you're a nuisance to them and/or decide that they'd be happy if you didn't exist. It's a two way street, hons, remember that!

Nick's confession and desire to be with Charlie is so heartfelt and the right recipe to make Charlie believe in himself!

The photocard is adorable! (*u*) Hahahha.. Nick screaming out into the ocean made me feel so giddy and happy!

I live for NickChar hugs! (TuT) *sniff sniff sniff*

Their beach outing is just the sweetest and no one can tell me otherwise!

When Nick started speaking to his mother, I held my breath for a long, long time and I let it all out in one big sigh of relief when I saw how supportive and loving she was. Oh my gods! This scene touched my heart so much! I understood Nick's fear and also his courage to let his mum know what was happening and basically be honest with her.

I love this show! What a beautiful story! :D

Can't wait for season 2!

[magicalembers]

What I’ve Found About Spellcasting

Find your niche. Find that one thing that you feel connected to more than anything else. It can be generic like crystals or herbs, or something very specific like different types of water.

What do I mean? Why is this important? Well, here’s my experience:

I am very attuned to flowers. When I cast my spells with flowers, or visualize flower things when doing energy work, my spells are a million times stronger. I can pick out a flower for a spell without even looking up its meaning and 99% of the time it’s actually what is widely used for that intent I’m going for. Granted, personal associations are valid too, just thought that was cool!

Crystals are also something I am very attuned to. When I read someone’s energy, I get the crystal they need at the moment. I can build complicated crystal grids without needing to think much on them.

My point is, when you find your niche, you tend to find the spells using items within that niche are stronger. Now, how do you find it?

First, go super general. Find what element you are attuned to best. Ask yourself, “Where am I most comfortable at?” Among answers could be: caves, mountains, forests, nighttime, daytime, city, beaches, lakeside, in the water, near fire, a season, windy days, etc. Meditate on it. Really think on it. With that, you can start narrowing things down to an element. And I don’t mean just the main four, I mean darkness, light, technology, etc. as well.

Next, narrow it down further to things within that element. For example, if you feel comfortable at a lakeside place, are you attuned to fresh water? What animals live there? What plants grow there? Do you feel more attuned to night or day? What season do you feel more attuned to? If it’s winter, maybe ice applies?

Don’t worry about taking time to do this. I didn’t figure this out until about four years into my craft. Some people figure it out fast. Some longer. Everyone is different!

Good luck and happy discovering yourself!