Dingo can be kinda a dick to us, I don’t care. But I draw the line at them doing the same to my friends.
And I assume they’re gonna be like “I don’t appreciate being mentioned like this” because that’s what happened last time.
SFZ just told me Dingo is apparently DMing them? Not cool, bro, not cool.
I’ve had a few run-ins with them.
I respect their boundaries and shit but when I asked if they had resources for finding medical professionals they got pissed off that I @ed them? I only did so because they always say “I can’t diagnose you, talk to a professional” and they’re an adult in therapy so I figured they would have resources. I haven’t been able to find the link to this post, but you all know how tumblr’s search algorithm is. I know it’s on my blog though.
It also made us upset when they said it was bad to say “you’re valid uwu” to everyone questioning system shit. I wouldn’t have minded as much if it didn’t come off so condescending. I haven’t been able to find the link to this post, but you all know how tumblr’s search algorithm is. I know it’s on my blog though.
I’ve heard we’ve got a bit of influence in the community now (which is strange because I’ve never really been well known before?) and I’m not trying to stir up drama or anything, at least not intentionally, but yikes.
It’s not like they’re a bad person. We just don’t seem to get along very well.
I don’t know exactly what I’m gonna do. I’m not following them anymore, but their posts are in tags I follow so I see them anyway.
Sorry for the sort of rant. Dingo, if you’re reading this (which you very well might be) I hope you understand where I’m coming from. I do respect your boundaries, and I hope this isn’t seen as vague-blogging or whatever (see your response linked close to the top of the post) but I felt I needed to talk about this. And I know you’d be upset if I @ed you anyway so I really can’t win
Once I can link the posts, I will. If you find either of these posts on my blog (or theirs) feel free to send the link in the replies or DM it to us. I’ve searched by the words I know are in the post and haven’t found either, but you can search for a post word for word and still get the “Oopsie nothing here sorry” from tumblr.
Do not send hate to them. Do not. They are not a bad person. Don’t start stuff on my behalf. Thank you.