toseefeelingly answered: Definitions change from person to person based on their (and others’) experiences.
Thanks for your answer, but sorry, I don't really like it. I don't want to invalidate or stomp on anyone's identities or experiences, but I think words need to mean the same thing for everyone.
I mean, if I call myself neutrois meaning that I have no gender, but the ones I'm speaking to think it means ambiguous gender, then we are not understanding each other, and understanding is what I'm looking for.
Of course I might just say "I have no gender" and be understood anyway, but somehow I feel the need for a word.
Then again maybe the line between ambiguous gender and no gender at all is so thin that it doesn't really matter to those who have a gender, I don't know. I'm just ranting here, I'm sorry.
dixiesaurer answered: its different for everyone but usually neutrois is having a neutral or ambiguous gender and agender is not having a gender at all
Thanks for your answer, I guess it makes sense. I think I'll use these definitions to explain myself then, thank you again.
