If you have any issues with reading this, screen reader included, contact me please! I'll try to fix it. • I decided against putting this in my previous post because it would clutter it.
For people out there who don't have a severe disability, and ESPECIALLY those who aren't disabled at all: do not say shit like "inspiring! 🤍🌻" or telling us we're "so courageous and brave!! 🌸" about someone who just left the house or is riding the train to work.
"Inspiration porn" refers to the objectification of disabled people for the benefit of abled people.
In case you don't know what that could mean, here is an example of inspiration porn:
This is an example of inspiration porn. Inspirational posts like this are meant to make those who aren't disabled motivated, or inspired.
If a disabled person can do it, you can do it too, right?
Here's what I feel I read as a disabled person:
You can't do something because you're disabled? You just don't have a good enough attitude! Don't let your disability stop you!
It's often meant to make those who aren't disabled feel better about their working bodies. Their sight, hearing, cognition, mobility, or anything else that they might see missing or impaired in a disabled person.
Here's how it's problematic.
I have multiple issues with inspiration porn, but most of them stem from the objectification of disabled people. Are you thinking about the person when you see a disabled person on their way to work? Or are you thinking about their disability? Even worse, are you thinking "I have it so good! At least I'm not disabled?"
Oftentimes it doesn't even try to celebrate the disabled person. I've seen so many "feel-good stories" about a disabled person receiving basic kindness from an abled person, and for some reason, being praised as though they saved someone's life.
For example, let's say a boy took a girl, who is disabled, to prom. Then, the news starts praising the boy as though he did it out of pity and charity (which is often not the case, as disabled people can be liked for being themselves!) and that he's so kind and charitable for taking her! If he took anyone else to prom, he wouldn't have had been praised for anything. Nothing the two did were wrong, but the way the media portrayed it is.
Another thing is that inspiration porn only represents disabled people as "angels" and "inspirations" whenever, let's be real, we're pretty average. A lot of us are lazy, a lot of us are rude, a lot of us eat too much junk food, we're FLAWED. We cannot constantly live up to the expectation of being angels in a human body sent down to Earth to test people. We shouldn't have to be good people just to receive accomodations. If accomodations are seen as a privilege, rather than a right, it won't be treated as something necessary.
I have been harmed by this. So many disabled people have been hurt. Why haven't we, as a society, listened to the people we claim to support?
My rant is over. Congratulations. I'm hoping this is screen reader friendly. And organized enough to read. I tried.
i hate how necros are mainly viewed as "dark, psychopathic, emo and scary!!" like? not every necro is a psycho wannabe yk? some of yall are disgusting and shows it off as if its something to be proud of.
📃|| she already has this very maternal nature to her, it's easy to feel safe around her ꨄ
🔥|| good instincts. the smallest little changes in demeanor can tell her 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨.
🩵|| patient, she'll take all day coddling you if it meant you felt even a teensy bit better.
🕊|| aftercare after anything terrible happens, she will take it just as seriously as you do.
🖊|| good listener, even if it makes zero sense. She'll nod along with the occasional "mhm!"
🪽|| punishment with her is likely either a scolding or the corner. either way she will reflect on it with you after. "you understand why I had to do that, correct?"
📜|| hums until you fall asleep, but it works everytime!
🛏|| during overwhelming times, or panic attacks she'll hold onto you as long as she can. with simple whispers of "shh shh" "I've got you." "I'm here now, you're okay." won't let anyone interfere with you until you're ready.
🐈⬛|| very clean cg, cleans your pacis or teethers very often, almost daily. Makes sure you get a bath each time you're regressed.
NO ONE OVER 23 INTERACT. I'm sorry. Even if you're trying to help, it just makes me uncomfortable and i will block you. Putting this up here because i don't want this happening again. (Ig you can like my posts but that's it).
Genders: afaunic, genderhoney or genderfloy + xenogenders.
Terms: masc, neutral, non-human.
Orientation: wuywiromantic, novisexual, emocian, and monogamous (too jealous/possessive to be ambi i found lol).
I hate energy drinks and love soda.
IDs: alter/non/para-human/being (idrk), therian, anifaux (problematic coiner but im still using cause it fits our experience best rn), 《Constelic, Fictionflicker, Otherfix (link)》, polymorph
Interests: Tulpamancy (1 tulpa). Looking into daemonism. Furry
Friendos✨️ (I'll take you off if you dont wanna be on here/don't see me as a friend):
@skvlls-vampz
@gravedolli
@okayoaks
Alt Accounts
@18-upper-blr (18+ blog) not linking cause i dont want irl mutuals seeing if they didnt already lol
@little-sideblr (little&pet space focused blog, probably won't get much use cause rarely in the headspaces anymore)
Dni
If u see your label in here, just know that you are allowed to interact, so long as you're not actively being a dick.
We'll make userboxes, flags and art occasionally.
Anyone can use the flags/userboxes we make, we don't gatekeep like a certain group of communities we are/were in. Just don't steal them and turn them into something for your evil agenda. (Reblog is cool cause then i can find it)
anti system / plural & anti endogenic/non-traumagenic system
anti kink
-- (this isnt just u thinking some kinks are gross this is genuine lowkey kink-shaming with no respect or regard for the kink haver's feelings)
nsfw/porn blogs
-- (unless i follow you first ig)
-- (i'm kinda sticky on these grounds, but im ok with valveplug)
*(for clarification idc if you still watch old dsmp creators' content (other than dream...) idc, i still watch Ranboo & stuff so as long as you're not trying to apologise for their wrongdoings / saying they've done nothing wrong, you can interact. Additionally if you support Dream or Wilbur for their wrongdoings stay the fuck off my blog and do not fucking interact. We support Shelby/Shubble here whole heartedly)
[OTHER]
I occasionally use Cybertronian terms or slang in my everyday speech, whether its referencing a body part
My name is Paige, I'm almost 18 and my pronouns are she/her pronouns and yes , because of my username, I'm a huge Marvel fan and I love the character of Vision from both the comics and the MCU. I'm also enjoy his daughter, Viv Vision too!
I originally created an introduction post here,but quickly deleted it because I was nervous that nobody is going to welcome me here because I'm new here and didn't leave much of an impression, but I'm sure that you are pretty friendly! 🙂💕
I am always up for friendly conversation about anything, especially things about Marvel and The Vision, Lol
My favourite Marvel movies are Spider-Man: No Way Home and Thor: Love and Thunder.
My favourite Marvel TV shows are WandaVision, Loki and Moon Knight
My favourite Marvel characters are The Vision ( of course! 😂) , Viv Vision, Spider-Man ( Peter Parker and Miles Morales) , Loki and Scarlet Witch ( More comics than MCU though)
My favourite non- Marvel movies are The Lion King, HTTYD: The Hidden World and Shazam!
My favourite non- marvel TV shows are some of the DreamWorks shows.
Shows that I need to catch up on are DC's Stargirl ( Don't know what episode I'm up to) and Season 2 of Fate: The Wink Saga
Weird stuff that I'm interested in are nostalgia including advert breaks and logo histories.
My favourite memes are Shrek memes.
I am also neurodivergent and Dyspraxic.
I hope you all have a good day!
Thanks! 🙂
Please note that I won't be on here all of the time as I can get busy with things to do.
Reminder that bodily autonomy is a human right and the autonomy and personal decisions of disabled people do not have any less weight just because they're coming from someone with a disability. Do not ignore disabled people just because they're disabled.
Disabled people deserve rights.
The right to say no to a procedure.
The right to ask for alternatives.
The right to forgive or not forgive.
The right to persue charges. (ex. robbery)
The right to choose medical euthanasia.
The right to appoint a specific decision maker for when you may, in the future, be unable to consent yourself.
The right to NOT persue charges. (ex. hate crime)
The right to develop a personality of your own.
The right to be in a relationship with someone.
The right to choose an abortion.
The right to disagree with caretakers.
The right to choose herbal medicine.
The right to express yourself.
These are all decisions that the person should be able to make. INCLUDING someone who is disabled, if they are physically able to do so. And while I doubt this post will ever do anything, I hope it makes someone think twice about how they treat someone under their care.
MAPS, Pedophiles, Hebephiles, Ephebophiles, Zoophiles, and Necrophiles are completely welcome on my blog btw. They're normal people with a disorder and I hold them to the same expectations with interacting with me like anybody else.
You legit CANNOT control attraction. That's literally the same thing as saying someone is gay by choice for example. You CANNOT will yourself into attraction. Do not ascribe a moral failure or state of being to this.
Conflating involuntary attraction with conscious action and advocacy for it is Not a Good Thing.
(To make this clear I am talking about NO CONTACT AND NON OFFENDING PARAPHILES. Okay? This would be absolutely WILD to say about pro contact paraphiles.)
If you wonder why I think like this, see this post.
