I id as aroace I guess but that really doesn't cover the "its complicated and im confused" feelings about attraction I have or the fact that I am potentially (sometimes) interested in dates and sexual encounters with multiple genders, and it certainly doesn't cover my feelings about sex and romance with my girlfriend. There are no words for those things. The fact that so many ppl would rather I just shut up and disapear instead of come up with or discover words to describe how I feel doesn't make it easier
















