mm.....your f/os helping you sleep by humming your favorite song and stroking your hair gently.... theyll continue to do it until you manage to fall asleep, willing to lose sleep if it means that you get the rest and recharge you deserve...
Imagine your f/o pining for you. They haven't been able to think straight for weeks upon weeks. Maybe months, even *years*.
They see you, and their heart squeezes, that fluttery feeling erupting within their chest.
What can they do to get you to notice them? What way can they ask to hang out without sounding too awkward or forward? They havent a clue on how to even approach their feelings-- but one thing is for sure, they want to be with you so badly.
They picture going out on dates, doting on you, what your first kiss would be like. They can't take only thinking about you anymore, they want to act, they need to have you.
They need your lips on theirs, to hold your face, to grab your waist and to bring you closer and finally *have* you. To be within the reach of your affections.
To look into your eyes, even a passing glance, a quick smile to follow...they think you're so sweet to take in. You're their future in their eyes.
To be yours would be their honor, but to be theirs is what will be their pride.
Fun activities to do with your F/O or fictional oshi
(cheap version: using little to no money!)
this is kinda long so beware. Feel free to suggest other things in reblogs or my inbox for a second part (if you want)
Edit pictures:
You can use an editing app like Ibis paint x or Picsart to put your oshi or f/o in your pictures, making them cute also.
Listen to their favorite music:
Make a playlist of songs you think they’d like or that they canonically listen to, maybe they have a theme song? Or you can make a playlist of songs that represent you both.
Make an AMV:
If theyre from a series or movie, you can make an amv to a song you think fits their vibe! Really fun and easy to do with programs like alight motion, kinemaster or capcut.
Scrapbook:
you dont need much for this, you can do it either digitally or physically, just get some stickers, pencils or markers draw your f/o and theme a page around them. For digital, you can use Ibis paint x, photopea or any similar drawing program.
Make a 3d model:
This one is tricky because you need a high end device so it doesnt lag, but you can make your very own 3d (oshi or f/o) in Vroid. Be warned its mostly for humanoid body types, so if your f/o is any other kind of build, it might be difficult.
Write them a note:
Write a note about them, it can be about how pretty, smart or interesting they are, or even more specific about any part of their lore or interests. Maybe write something theyve helped you with?
Add them in a game:
You can make them in a game like Gacha life, Papa louie pals, Poca mate (this one is good for couples), or Toca life.
Make a list of videos they’d enjoy:
Whether it be on tiktok or youtube, you can make a list of things theyd enjoy and add to it! Can be edits of them, things related to them, anything with their vibe or even inspiration for drawings.
Make an animation meme:
If you can draw, this will be easier but you can also do this with official arts if your f/o or oshi is 2d. You can do this with any drawing app and then with alight motion or capcut, you can also use this in scratch, where there are already templates free to use
Make a dress up game of them:
This is more complicated, but its easier to understand with a few tutorials, which there are many of. Use scratch and draw some of their outfits! It doesnt have to be perfect, it just needs to exist! Make code and dress them up! You can even add props or maybe add options for music? Its all at your will.
Eat with them:
When you have your breakfast or dinner, you can put up a picture of them on your phone / computer or get merch of them beside you (with carefulness not to stain it!) and eat as if it were a date.
Make a moodboard:
You can make a pinterest board of things they like, that fit their vibe, or things you would like them to wear, truly anything you can want!
Get into their interests:
Watch a documentary of things theyd like, there are many free documentaries on YouTube, so dont be afraid to watch and learn. Whether its victorian sewing or marine biology, there is a lot of information you can learn to be closer to them.
Make a paper doll:
Draw them and some clothes, cut them out and get to playing! If you have a printer you can also draw it digitally. Find clothes inspiration from their source or from pinterest and get to drawing!
Asmr:
Find asmr that fits them, maybe its wax sealing? Or card shuffling, there are many kinds of asmr out there.
Internet page:
Dedicate an internet page to your selfship / oshi! It can be a carrd, rentry or a strawpage. You can request graphics for it or make them yourself (which in my opinion is more fun!) and edit them into your page. It might look confusing at first but once you figure out how to decorate the website, it becomes suuper fun!!
Date outside:
Carry an object representing them (it can be a keychain, jewelry, a picture in your wallet, etc) and when you go on about your day, you can think about them or what they’d say about the activities youre doing in the moment! Afterwards you could write it down.
Match outfits:
Find any outfit they have worn and try to dress similarly, it makes for a lot of fun if you got time to spare. If they dont have any matching ones, consider editing / drawing them into an outfit. You could also draw you both matching!
