#drjaffe #adijaffe #sobriety #handleyourshit Dr. Jaffe GETS IT. He ALWAYS HAS. With total #abstinence from #alcohol & say, agreeing with the #nimrods at #AA #alcoholicsanonymous, an individual invariably is shunned with #shame #panic #helplessness & #powerless. THAT is a bunch of bullshit. There is no reason why, if you can #manage and #handle your #drinking & ignoring the #stinkeye from everyone, you cannot kick back a couple once in a while. If you do, your self, recognize that you are #nothandling your #shit, people need to trust that you probably have #commonsense by that point to recognize hey-I should #refrain or #coolit. Are you behaving the way you did when you were either told or accused of walking around with a #demon inside you? Try #smartrecovery or your #physician, #psychiatrist, #lcsw #socialworker, #casemanager, therapist or anyone else who won’t make you feel like a #failure. #clinkclink (at Park Ridge, Illinois) https://www.instagram.com/p/BtoJOSpBq6G/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=b5wn13x5i03a