Messy headcanon notes on transgender drow culture because that’s the things I think about
I was half awake trying to think of a good mushroom name for estrogen mushrooms and I came up with like widow’s cap or some gay shir like that because I was half asleep but also polymorph exists but I think within drow there’s less pressure to change your genital situation because gender is different and blah blah being a girl with a penis or a boy with a vagina is more advantageous for each particular gender as if you’re a girl with a penis suddenly you’re popular for better or worse because you’re able to reproduce with a cis woman and they wouldn’t have to deal with males, if you’re a man without a penis you don’t have to worry about jealous suitors castrating you for looking at another girl wrong
At a certain age I assume attendants help higher class women with applying or taking their estrogen, as trans women are seen to be blessed by lolth herself
The deal with trans men I’m not 100 percent sure but I was thinking something like while not super frowned upon it’s still you’re male now ew you must have no lusts for power your weakness will be the end of you type deal
“Oh good I don’t have to waste my poisons anymore since I have a son now”
“No one will try to assassinate my baby unless he tries courting the right girls”
“Oh of course my daughter is a son he never wanted the crown like his sisters did”-a supportive drow mother
Of course that’s not saying much, as some drow mothers don’t even notice whoops I had this many daughters and this many sons if they’re particularly bad
But might get angry to check in and whoops I have a son
Might have to castrate my husband for that little surprise
Also dnd lore is rough cause there’s so much stuff happening with older races that we don’t even know if drow males or drow females are the larger ones(I’m going with females being bigger I’m assuming a hyena situation tbh)