I'm wondering if you have headcanons on Shizuo and izaya love language? I just love your headcanons so much ! Thank you very much for those lovely headcanons. 🧎
I do. 🥺 Thank you so much.
Izaya: the love languages that he expresses most is acts of service followed by gift giving and physical touch- hold the phone though! Because they are not all healthy expressions of acts of service and gift giving.
He will set up doctor’s appointments for Shizuo and go with him to make sure it goes smoothly. He teases him and pretends to gripe about it but Shizuo knows that Izaya feels really useful for being able to deal with social situations Shizuo’s not good in.
He’ll get Shizuo’s laundry dry cleaned, and tidy up his spaces for him around their apartment. If they don’t live together, one of the first gestures he initiates to show he cares is offer a place for Shizuo to keep his stuff when he stays overnight.
Will buy an entire skincare routine for Shizuo to use and teaches him how to use it. At first, Shizuo assumes it’s a scheme to piss him off and condescend to him and Izaya even pretends like it was indeed that because he realizes Shizuo is insulted, but Shizuo realizes that it was a genuine gesture that Izaya meant as a way to show he cared.
Same thing with his hair. Don’t use bad shampoo or 3 in 1 bullshit Shizuo.
Izaya jumps at the opportunity to show Shizuo a new experience or do something he thinks would improve Shizuo’s quality of life because he still gets in the mindset that he has to prove how useful he is all the time. Shizuo can get kind of frustrated by it because while it does mean that Izaya has genuinely well meaning intentions for doing things for Shizuo, Izaya is still kind of viewing love and relationships as a transactional thing that he has to earn.
Because of the point above, Shizuo limits Izaya in the amount of gifts he’s allowed to give, and if Izaya does something for him he’s still suspicious at times, or just a little exasperated. Izaya is still learning.
Physical touch, however,,,, LMAO is one of Shizuo’s big love languages as well. Izaya is very good with little tender and romantic gestures like brushing his bangs out of his face, cupping his cheek, holding his hands and kissing his palms, etc. Izaya loves to have his hands somewhere on Shizuo. I’d say that my hc for which love language Izaya likes to receive from Shizuo the most is physical touch, and he loves to have Shizuo hold him. Tucks himself into Shizuo’s chest and relaxes.
He’s also a little more timid with his words of affirmation because it’s really hard for him to be honest, but he is really good at encouraging Shizuo and complimenting him. Because of how he is, he always knows what to say.
He likes for Shizuo to do things for him though like 1000%. If Shizuo brings him a coffee or puts his socks on for him he’ll get kind of tongue-tied for a second because Shizuo is just so unassuming.
He’s also a sucker for Shizuo getting gifts for him. Somehow Shizuo is freakishly so good at getting him presents. Izaya didn’t even know how sentimental he was until he got a hopeless romantic boyfriend.
Now for Shizuo: main love language is physical touch but also quality time. He likes to receive words of affirmation, but he can be a little reserved at giving them out.
Shizuo is no fool. He knows who he’s with and that Izaya needs protecting from no one, and most people probably need protecting from him, but he still protecc. He always has a hand on Izaya somehow, and thankfully even when he doesn’t Izaya usually has a hand on him. They literally can’t keep their hands off of each other. Something something they chased each other and were just out of arm’s reach for the longest time? And now they’re just a little eternally intertwined okay nbd.
A little nsfw-ish maybe, but Shizuo falling asleep on Izaya near the start of their relationship and Shizuo somehow always having his mouth on Izaya in some way. He always drools and Izaya futilely attempts to knock him off but fails. Izaya endears himself to it.
Shizuo doesn’t need a fancy date ever, or exotic trips overseas, or even a lengthy vacation. All he needs is to know several times per day that Izaya’s attention is 100% undivided and on him which- is no problem at all since they love each other your honor.
If he feels neglected he gets kinda sulky. Not jealous per se, at least not at first, but he at least doesn’t want Izaya’s time being all spent up from work if he’s home. PAY ATTENTION TO HIM IZAYA SMH.
As stated in my Izaya hc, Shizuo tries not to enable Izaya’s habit of attaching his self worth and value in his usefulness to others, but he does love for Izaya to do something for him with him such as make dinner. He likes doing chores together and snuggling together on the couch all domestic-like afterward.
Shizuo loves for Izaya to kiss his hands. Something particular about his hands just seems like such a conscientious thing on Izaya’s part, and they’ve never spoken about it yet somehow that seems to make it better. So I have a hc that Shizuo is very insecure over his hands. He hasn’t taken good care of his hands, he has rough looking hands, and Izaya has literally been hurt by those hands. It feels like a silent gesture of encouragement for Izaya to kiss his knuckles. Sometimes he even looks Shizuo in the eye knowingly as he does it. Shizuo barely keeps it together.
He’s better with words of affirmation than Izaya but he’s still not great. He struggles with saying how deeply he feels. He can say the words “I love you.” pretty quickly on the tongue so that’s one thing. Izaya has to practice really hardcore for a while.
Izaya always loves Shizuo’s gifts which are always incredible and also mundane. Honestly Shizuo thought Izaya was making fun of him the first time Shizuo got him anything, but Izaya actually seemed like he was tearing up himself. He’s good at nostalgic presents which is great because Izaya can buy himself literally anything he wants for himself any time.
Shizuo is a hopeless romantic and will have them spend a whole day together if he has to. One that Shizuo plans himself and ends somewhere really nice. This falls under acts of service and quality time I feel.
Shizuo has in fact memorized Izaya’s hair and skincare routine and grows to follow trends that Izaya which Shizuo also likes.














