TransTRENDERS
I am completely fed up by this point. So I am going to lay this down hard and cold. I will not hold back.
I don’t hate many people, I’m not the kind of person to hold a grudge. This doesn’t mean that I can’t find people unbarably irritating. It doesn’t mean that there are people in this world that don’t cause me internal anguish. The people that cause me more distress than any other type of human beings are goddamned transtrenders.
What is a transtrender?
It is someone who says that they are transgender as a fashion statement. They don’t think they’re trending but they’re easy to spot. They usually ask for a they/he or they/she pronoun picks (or maybe even made up bullshit). They also feel like gender is a social construct, and feel like we shouldn’t have gender because it is just some kind of government controlling scheme or perhaps damaging to society. Because of this, they tend to not dress as the selected gender- because fuck normative thinking. Their last symptom is that they believe that you don’t need to have dysphoria to be transgender.
Let me rephrase that, using the medical terms regarding gender reassignment desires.
They believe that you do not have to have dysphoria to suffer from gender dysphoria.
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I can hear them grinding their teeth already. If you feel like you might be called out by the above paragraph, sweethart, you’re a transtrender. I’m calling you out on your bullshit today.
I suffer from gender dysphoria. I am not about to tell you all my symptoms because it would be like handing you the blueprints to something and risking you calling them your own. I’m not telling you these facts because I think less of you, or want to belittle you. You should feel happy that you aren’t suffering with an illness! Celebrate. REJOYCE.
I’m going to lay down some ground rules here, and the first one is going to be a very clear point.
-it IS okay to explore your comfort zones with your body may it be your gender, appearance or otherwise.
-it IS okay to go ‘back’ on your gender decision. Have you learned that you might actually be happy with yourself? THATS OK.
-it IS okay to wear whatever you want regardless of the ‘clothes’ assigned gender.
With all that said, let’s continue.
I see it way too much lately. Someone presenting, living as female with a gender neutral name, going out dressed effeminatly doing feminine things, born female.... telling everyone they’re a man.
You have no goddamn idea what dysphoria is, do you???
Do you know how it fucking feels to have these features highlighted and put on display?
Do you actually think that because you feel comfortable in a mans shirt- that you can sometimes occasionally do masculine makeup and think it would be better if you were a man, so that it’s easier to cosplay guys—- do you actually think that classes you as transgender????
You’re fucking wrong.
That’s not being transgender. You just lack the creativity to find methods of changing your appearance without desiring some kind of cheat sheet.
Especially if you cosplay girls
“It’s CROSSDRESSING”
I think you miss the goddamn point here. That just proves that you aren’t transgender.
Not because you’re cosplaying your bio gender- oh no. It’s because you’re clearly comfortable presenting that body shape. You clearly have no issues with stereotypically effeminate things being emphasised on show for all to see-
“Guess I’ll stop cosplaying girls then” was that your thought just now? Adjusting your habits to try and force the symptom?
Maybe you’re thinking
“Genders a social construct!”
No, it’s not. Gender- your biological sex is a fact.
The way people dress, walk, talk and act- these a stereotypes BASED on gender.
Stereotypes are grown and based on facts that take to the majority of a group of individuals who all have a trait (out of their control) in common.
I.e race or gender.
Just two examples there.
When you- by biological fella, wear girls hot pants because they hug your ass sweetly- you’re breaking stereotype.
You know heels were made for men, right? A break in stereotype means women now typically wear heels- but some men do too- does this make them transgender? It does not. Do you think these guys would rather identify as female? Absolutely not.
Does it mean a biological girl who identifies as a man should have the right to wear heels? Oh theybhave a right. Absolutely. What kind of heels? Pink fluffy stilettos? Okay but just so you know, you’re going to be swaying that booty, walking like a queen. If you’re comfortable with those parts of your body being enhanced then you’re not suffering with body dysphoria.
That’s what dysphoria is. These body parts are so alien to you, like every morning you wake up in someone else’s body. Every single day what you feel like you look like and what you see don’t align. Somethings wrong, this shirt doesn’t fit me like it fits the other girls. I’ve tried all shapes sizes and body types yet when I look all I feel is sick. I look like a man in drag- maybe I am a man in drag.
Want to get your tits out? I’m happy for you. I’m happy you can stand the public staring at them. Thinking about how weird you look- I’m glad you can stand the thought of people believing you’ve got something wrong with you- or don’t you have those thoughts...?
Because if you really don’t find the issue of showing your feminine exclusive parts as much as possible a difficult task, then I fail to see the utter detachment and abandonment of the idea that certain appendeges existed.
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On the topic of tits.
Binding.
Oh my god. This is a fucking laugh. I was binding even before I came out to anyone as Male. I’ve been binding for a very long time. That doesn’t mean I didn’t flash the boobs, but tucking them away ended up being so much better. I tried to get them out and I tried to be pretty and flaunt the amazing tits I have.
But still I looked in the mirror and felt like... I was wearing someone else’s shirt or something. Like I was wearing shoes that didn’t belong to me.
Hiding them was better.
I love boobs. My girlfriend has an amazing body- I desire to touch it and hold it. But I feel so off of i were to picture myself in her body.
I don’t think it would fix anything, looking as beautiful as her.
But I digress- boobs, binding. A transtrenders obsession and need to remind people how long they’ve been binding. Like it’s some extreme danger, an extreme health risk.
“I have been binding for like 20 hours man”
Some kind of desire to get someone to tell you to take it off? What is it? I don’t get that.
Fuck, I don’t want people to know I have a binder on.
I hate the thing!!!! Get it off me- I can’t stand the sight of me. Let me wear it again.
This binders like a bad drug and I don’t want people to hear it. No please don’t tell me to take it off, please.
My girlfriend said I needed to wash it- I cried,
Wtf
That means going without it!!
I’m asthmatic, too. Restriction on the chest are bad right? Not if you’re wearing the right size. If you’re not breathing right, the binder you wearnis too tight, get a new one- it’s not that fucking complicated.
I don’t care how long you’ve been wearing it, this is not a competition. If you shouldn’t be wearing it take it the fuck off and shut up.
“I binded today. It felt good uwu”
Fuck off. Binding feels aweful. I hate this crutch.
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I am very tired right now. So I’m Going to stop. I might make a part 2. I’m basically sick of seeing girls post this cute boi soft aesthetic like its some pretty bracelet, yet still finding so much comfort in their shells- and I’m sat here feeling pathetic and unable to do so. Not even in the slightest.